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jesseandbri
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WWYD?
I am invited to a baby shower and can't decide if I should go or not. I have never met momma to be. I work with her dad and DH works for them once a year. I met grandmother to be when I had B.
I had planned to make them a hairbow holder with her bedding fabric and get them something from her registry... I won't know anyone there but feel a bit obligated to go.
Would you go or just send a gift?
Re: WWYD?
Personally, I would just send a gift, but I'm antisocial like that.
this.
Agree.
I agree that it was awkward of her to invite you when she doesn't even know you. At most, I would give a small gift to her dad the next time you see him but I don't even think you really need to do that.
Did her or her family get you a gift when you had B? That could be a determining factor on whether I got her something or not
A bit more info, her dad and I work together on a daily basis and I talk to his wife weekly because she writes my check.
As odd as it is, they did get us a gift when I had B that included dinner. It was something small but at the time they were simply Christmas light customers. I started working with him when B was 2 months old. It is more of a business friend relationship than anything else but I feel like they want me to go.
I don't have the invite yet but when I asked about the bedding yesterday I was told that a gift was not being requested from us but they still wanted B and me to come. She said that DH and I have been blessing enough.
OH!!! And turns out I actually did at one time know mom to be! When I pulled up one of the registries I noticed her maiden name (different from mom and dad), I went to elementary school with her! It is a freaking small world!
I don't think I will go but I will at the very least drop a present off for them.