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Baby RN or people who have used Mercy

I will be delivering in Oct, and I am not sure what to do with our (will be) 21 month old.  I am especially worried if I go in to labor overnight.  I don't have family here, and I am wondering if people bring their kids to the hospital until someone can arrive?  I think my dad or my friend (who will be living in the Quad Cities then) will be able to make it up, just not sure if there is a daycare, or anything for K until then.  I don't know about 21 month olds, but as a 16 month old, we can't keep him still for a second, so I wouldn't want him pulling out any monitor cords!!!  What do people do with their kids when you don't have family to nag???  :)
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Re: Baby RN or people who have used Mercy

  • I had Carly at Mercy in 2010.  My parents were meeting us at the hospital so we had Betsy with us for a few hours.  I asked at the registration desk when we got there and she said that people brought in their older kids all the time. 

    I was just on the monitors at that point and not really contracting, so after Betsy started getting into everything, DH sat in the lobby with her and we texted if I needed to tell him something. 

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    Nicholas started behaving better as he got older, mostly because he's understanding more of what not to do and why not to do it, so I wouldn't stress too much. I know in that situation, he'd be a bit nervous and probably would be more inclined to sit and watch than mess around. I'd just bring something for K to do. A new toy or coloring book might help.
  • I think you will probably be fine until someone can come. Your DH will be there and can keep an eye on him, right?  One thing to be aware of, I know on my floor anyway during flu season we do not allow small children in patient areas, I am not sure what labor and delivery rules are on that so you might want to check into that. I think we start this around Oct or Nov.
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  • Oh- that is very interesting!!!  I didn't think about the rules during flu season.  Also, good idea about a new toy.  That will keep him busy for a little while!!
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