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that is how I feel. So my grandfather passed way a few months ago, leaving my mother the executor. I hven't spoken to my mother in almost two year, she is a hateful, psychotic Biotch. Anyway, she told my Aunt that I was listed in the trust, but I waasn't left anything. fishy...especially since my granfather told my grandmother (they were divorced but still talked) that I was being left something. My mother is ignoring my texts. Does this mean I have hire a lawyer? Can I call her today and say if she doesn't give me the name of the lawyer, I'm hiring my own?
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I'm not really sure... but it sounds like it couldn't hurt to at least see if you can get a free consult with an estate attorney to find out what your rights/options are.
If you need a recommendation, I know an excellent estate attorney in San Leandro. He was a tremendous help to me when I was thrust into the role of handling my dad's screwed up estate after he unexpectedly died a few years ago. Just let me know.
I don't have anything helpful to contribute, but just wanted to let you know that I am so very sorry for your loss, and that all this is happening.
My whole family fell apart after my grandmother died years ago. My aunts and uncles went bananas and started all accusing each other of stuff and acting psycho. It's strange how death can bring out the worst in people. My mom had to deal with a lot of backstabbing and hurtful behavior from my relatives (that's one of the reasons my parents moved to Texas- to get away from all the craziness) and I don't have any kind of relationship with any of that side of the family. It was all really awful. So I can defninitely feel for your situation, and I'm sorry it's happening to you.
I wish you the absolute best, and hope everything is resolved as quickly and painlessly as possible for you. Take care!
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