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Tantrums at 15 months?

Okay, I am struggling, how do I deal with Wesley's more and more frequent tantrums? I feel like I have tried everything. Sometimes I can distract him, I try to stick with regular times for snacks and meals and always have a sippy cup of water available but it only seems to be getting worse. Am I doing something wrong and/or is this normal at his age? 

 oh, tantrums are triggered by baby gates (or anything that resembles them- like our gate in our yard), removing him from a dangerous situation (ie away from stairs or playing rough with that cat.), or leaving somewhere he wants to be (like the mall play place) and for other reasons that I am apparently clueless about.  

 

How have you successfully dealt with tantrums at his age? He's not talking and my efforts to teach him sign aren't paying off (yet).


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Re: Tantrums at 15 months?

  • At that age, C would throw a few mini tantrums.  We would first try redirecting.  This actually worked most of the time if we got him interested in something else quickly.  If not, we would make sure to put him in a safe place and just let him cry/flop around and ignore him.  It usually didn't last long and then it was over.  If we were somewhere public, we would hold him and let him cry or one of us would take him out to the car.  Time out didn't work for us because he would never stay there, he always just ran right back to whatever he was doing.  It helped he could sign and try to tell us what he was upset about, but most of the time he was just telling us he wanted to do what we couldn't let him do so the tantrum was still inevitable.  Good luck, it's just a hard age for tantrums.
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  • Completely normal! Reese would throw a fit (and still does) for the most random reasons. It's a million times worse if she's tired or hungry. I just walk away from her a let her throw her fit. I'm mom of the year, and have even done it in public. If I pay any attention to it, it just gets worse. And we started time out shortly after her first birthday. The first time was horrible for me because she was crying so hard, but she seemed to 'get' it. And now she gets it too well and will put herself in time out! Lol!
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  • I don't have any advice but you are not alone... Oliver is doing the same thing. 
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    I don't have any advice but you are not alone... Oliver is doing the same thing. 

    Yep- so is Kellen.  Usually when he wants more independence, is hungry or tired.   Yet, I have to set boundaries, or this kid would be in the ER every day.  GL! :)

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  • I am glad I am not alone.... I guess misery really does love company. Yesterday was a rough day, but today is much better. Thank goodness!
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