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Newly wed (2 weeks married)

We have only been married a few weeks, and I just wanted to see how often newly weds are doing IT?

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Re: Newly wed (2 weeks married)

  • No sense in posting a poll because every couple is different.

    The ladies on this board will say the same thing.

    And your situation will be different indeed --- you have a 7 month old that's in the mix. Tough to squeeze in time for sex when a small kiddo is in the picture.

     Maybe you can find a parent or relative to baby sit the kiddo while you and your H get some alone time, even if you had a "lock in" at your home for the weekend.;) what matters is alone time as a couple.

    If your situation is "F"---- or whatever it is if it is not "F",--- talk to your H. Communication is key.

    By the way, oral sex is sex. I guess you read too much of Clinton's testimony.;)

     

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    Every couple is different as the PP said. So what's right for my H and me might not be right for you and your H. Especially since you have a baby and I don't have kids yet. As long as you and your H are in agreement about how much sex you have don't worry about what's "normal". There is no normal.

    It's so weird to me that women post on this forum that they're newlyweds and not fuucking like rabbits so therefore something is terribly wrong with their relationship. (I'm not saying this is you BTW.)

  • Here's an idea: enjoy being married and don't compare yourself to other couples.  Your relationship ain't theirs.  YOu do what works and feels right for you and your husband.  Does it really matter if some other couples are getting it on three times nightly or once monthly?  How does that affect you?
  • imageSugarLoafButterCup:
    Here's an idea: enjoy being married and don't compare yourself to other couples.  Your relationship ain't theirs.  YOu do what works and feels right for you and your husband.  Does it really matter if some other couples are getting it on three times nightly or once monthly?  How does that affect you?

    THIS!

    PS: You can say the word sex. I promise, we're adults and won't giggle.

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    imageSugarLoafButterCup:
    Here's an idea: enjoy being married and don't compare yourself to other couples.  Your relationship ain't theirs.  YOu do what works and feels right for you and your husband.  Does it really matter if some other couples are getting it on three times nightly or once monthly?  How does that affect you?

    THIS!

    PS: You can say the word sex. I promise, we're adults and won't giggle.

    if you are satisfied with the number of times you're having sex, whether it's monthly or daily, then you have a satisfactory sex life.

    If you want more sex, speak to your partner. Communication is key, as I've said.

  • We have PLENTY of sex. It was just a fun poll. Not trying to compare or ask if we are normal or not. I just wanted to see what other newly weds were doing. I see  now noone over here knows how to have any fun. Dr. Phil syndrome on this board is heavy. NoStick out tongue
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  • I think your biggest problem is not your sex life, but rather that you chose to name your daughter oatmeal. What did she do to deserve that?

    http://www.spanishdict.com/translate/avena 

  • imageSugarLoafButterCup:
    Here's an idea: enjoy being married and don't compare yourself to other couples.  Your relationship ain't theirs.  YOu do what works and feels right for you and your husband.  Does it really matter if some other couples are getting it on three times nightly or once monthly?  How does that affect you?

     This! Comparing how often you have sex to how often other couples have sex can't help at all. (also, saying "IT" instead of "sex" makes me giggle.)

     And I like your little girls name, it's cute!

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  • imagelongingtoholdher2010:
    We have PLENTY of sex. It was just a fun poll. Not trying to compare or ask if we are normal or not. I just wanted to see what other newly weds were doing. I see  now noone over here knows how to have any fun. Dr. Phil syndrome on this board is heavy. NoStick out tongue

     

    AGREED!!

     

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