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Poll about your ta-tas

This subject was brought up on GP. I thought I was in the minority, but was pleasantly surprised.

Do you wear a bra at home?

Re: Poll about your ta-tas

  • I love to go braless at home. As soon as I walk in the door, the bra, shoes, and wedding ring all go. Sometimes I worry that it's bad to just let them flop around so much. Do you think this will cause me to have saggy boobs in the future?
  • Before getting pregnant, I would take my bra off the minute I got home.  Once I got pregnant, and all through breastfeeding, I needed the support -- I just couldn't go without it.  Like, wearing a bra even to bed, support.... but now I'm gradually getting back to sleeping sans bra.  I'll sleep in, like, a cami with a shelf for a little something, but every now and again I'll go braless.  It's weird doing it again, won't lie, so I don't know if I can get back to doing it completely..

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  • I do if I'm dressed, but I take it off when I get ready for bed. Or, if it's a pajama day like yesterday was and I don't get dressed, then I don't put one on.
  • Yes. Pre-pregnancy I would only not wear one to bed and just wear a tank that had a shelf-bra built in. Now I need one even at night. They didn't grow bigger like out-wise, just sideways-ish with just being really really really fuller (went from a 34 small B to a 38D)
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  • I used to go braless the minute I got home, but since baby came, the only time I don't have a bra on is when I'm showering or...you know, we're doing the deed Wink But here's my take on the whole sagging issue...gravity says you will eventually sag. Breastfeeding/having a baby or going braless might expedite when it happens, but it will happen regardless.
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    I used to go braless the minute I got home, but since baby came, the only time I don't have a bra on is when I'm showering or...you know, we're doing the deed Wink But here's my take on the whole sagging issue...gravity says you will eventually sag. Breastfeeding/having a baby or going braless might expedite when it happens, but it will happen regardless.

    Yeah, I STILL wear mine... AND I'm still iffy about them being touched.  They're just not the same anymore...

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    imagemz_zane:
    I used to go braless the minute I got home, but since baby came, the only time I don't have a bra on is when I'm showering or...you know, we're doing the deed Wink But here's my take on the whole sagging issue...gravity says you will eventually sag. Breastfeeding/having a baby or going braless might expedite when it happens, but it will happen regardless.

    Yeah, I STILL wear mine... AND I'm still iffy about them being touched.  They're just not the same anymore...

    Guy will NOT let me do it with a bra on. I like to leave it on so I don't flop around, but he likes 'em flying free. So, it's a conundrum - do I leave it on for my comfort, or do I take it off so he'll finish faster? LOL

  • I wear it unless I'm asleep.  Then I wear a tank with a shelf bra.  I credit this behavior for the general perkiness I enjoy about them.
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    imagemz_zane:
    I used to go braless the minute I got home, but since baby came, the only time I don't have a bra on is when I'm showering or...you know, we're doing the deed Wink But here's my take on the whole sagging issue...gravity says you will eventually sag. Breastfeeding/having a baby or going braless might expedite when it happens, but it will happen regardless.

    Yeah, I STILL wear mine... AND I'm still iffy about them being touched.  They're just not the same anymore...

    Haha, I totally know what you mean. Like, they aren't for H anymore, they're for baby. It has taken a while for both Jimi and I to get over that mindset, but they're bigger then they ever were before so we're trying to take advantage of that while we can, lol.

  • Oh I feel so weird having sex with a bra on. Can not do it. It's the equivalent of sex in socks to me.

     

  • Also, we all know that I have saggy bewbies, so I don't even know why I answered this poll...LOL
  • Apparently, the results change greatly post-baby. Almost everyone on GP said they go braless at home and especially for sleeping. I guess I should appreciate my small, perky, sensitive boobs while I still gots em.
  • I totally should wear a bra at home, but I almost never do unless we have company or I've been out somewhere in which case I'll leave it on.

    I can't stand wearing a bra. My chest is so heavy and it seems like every bra I've tried digs into my shoulders (even the huge padded straps; counter intuitively, they actually pull and dig WORSE than the thinner straps). So my conundrum is saggy boobs vs. achy back/shoulders. I'll take the saggy boobs.

    And sex with a bra is an iffy situation. Danny likes free range boobies, but in some positions I feel like my "udders" are just flapping away without my control, so in those positions, we compromise and I rein in my udders.

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  • I usually will leave mine on and jsut take it of before I go to bed. When I get dressed I put one on; if I never get dressed and have pajama day or whatever then I never put one on.

    The only time I usually will rip a bra off the moment I get in the door is if I've been sweating in it all day or if it's a strapless because my strapless bras are wildly uncomfortable.

    I only have sex with a bra on if it's cute, otherwise I'd rather have it off for the extra stimulation a little nipple play can evoke (sorry if that's tmi!)

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  • Oh yes! I love to let the pups out of their cages as soon as I get home. Of course, I usually also change into pajamas when I get home....
  • oh god I always always wear a bra, except when it's bed time. I hate being bra-less. The exception is sometimes I'll wear a tank with a shelf bra for a couple hours before bed, like if I work out in the evening I'll change into that after showering.

    Sex is always bra-less with the exception of one piece of lingerie I have, but if the position makes them a problem, I just hold them.

  • Yep, bra comes off once I'm home. Lately, my bras have been uncomfortable midway through the day, so if the kid I nanny and I are just hanging out at the house, I'll change into a light sports bra and a tank with a bra shelf. So much more comfortable! I sleep in the same thing, I cannot stand sleeping braless. Its off for sex and showering, that's it. I would love to have smaller boobs that didnt need a bra at all times.

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  • Generally I wear a bra at home...unless it's early in the morning and I'm not dressed yet or late at night and I'm in my pj's.
  • i never wore a bra at home- mostly shelf tanks- now same thing just no taking it off when we do the deed...
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