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Even Years :)

My Cousin Inlaw and I were discussing divying up the family hosting responsibilities and I got the even years! I might be a littel overly excited!!
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Re: Even Years :)

  • WahooWahoo member
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    It's nice when you decide something that is fair and that works for you.

    Just remember, neither you nor your cousin should ever feel "stuck" - - if it works for you to host, or not host, just talk it out and re-arrnge things.

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  • I'm glad it wasn't a battle!!!! Usually it is with most families! I don't even know how to bring up all of this with my family. Ugh...
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  • I am so jealous!  How did you bring up this subject?  I'm curious to know!
  • The hosting responsibilities used to belong to my Great Aunt Aunt Liba (Cousin Inlaw's MIL, also my Nana's SIL), my Nana (Dad's Mom), and my Aunt Pam (Dad's Sister).

    My Aunt Liba is the MIL that gives in MIL's a bad name. She is so horrible to Misty (my CIL). It has truly caused a big rift in the family.

    My Nana stopped hosting since she got remarried and they moved into a smaller house.

    My Aunt Pam and her family family stopped talking to me after my first marriage ended.

     So us black sheep and drama dodgers of the family decided to start creating our own family holidays. Nana is VERY excited to have family holidays re-instated, I think she was getting to the point of taking over the hosting duties just to calm everyone down.

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  • I am glad the decision process was so easy. This caused great arguments with my last SO!
  • I'm glad it wasn't a battle.Smile
  • imageWahoo:

    It's nice when you decide something that is fair and that works for you.

    Just remember, neither you nor your cousin should ever feel "stuck" - - if it works for you to host, or not host, just talk it out and re-arrnge things.

     

    I agree

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