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I am in the doghouse with B...
Remember when I posted about the drama with my grandpa getting remarried and that he was going to move into my uncles house?? Well my mom swore me to secretcy b/c no one was supposed to know. She specifically told me not to tell B b/c he would blab his mouth that the yacht club. Soooo last night B comes home from the yacht club and ask me "Did you know your grandpa is moving into your uncle's house?". Not thinking anything of it I said "Yeah but its supposed to be a huge secret so I couldnt tell anyone". B went off!!! He was/is soooooooooo mad at me. I dont get it. Its not that big of a deal. No one else in my family knows yet. I had a feeling everyone was going to find out on Saturday. B wouldnt talk to me at all last night. I mean I know you should have secerets from your spouse but it wasn't like I didnt tell him his parents were getting divorced. In my eyes its just not a big deal. What do you think?? Is he over reacting or am I really in the wrong here.
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Re: I am in the doghouse with B...
For the record I would not have changed what I did here... other then lie to him and tell him I didnt know LOL. I have no doubt had he knew when the person at the yacht club told him he would have said "Yeah I know D told me"LOL
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This pretty much word for word. Plus it's your family drama, not his technically. I could see him getting that mad if they were moving in with YOU and you didn't tell him!
secrets you don't keep from your spouse - i spent a ton of money, i went out to lunch with my ex.
secrets you can keep - ones that aren't yours in the first place. just because you're married people should be able to have you as a confidante.
i think your h overreacted. he's punishing you for no reason.
I agree with Maryland there are some secrets that are not okay to keep from your spouse but anything that doesn't deal with you as a family I don't think is a big deal.
I would maybe jokingly give H a hard time like "come on you don't trust me enough to not say anything" and he'd then say "no because you blad a lot" haha and I would laugh.
This is what I have learned in the past few months with folks drama and I hate keeping secrets but have learned to withhold....it wasn't your business or story to tell.
Your mom probably shouldn't have told you but I get it she needed to tell someone. But again not your story to tell. I would assume that your grandpa doesn't care and was telling folks but yah I don't see the big deal especially not big enough to not talk to you the rest of the night
I would have said the same thing.
Ok I feel better that you are all on my side. I hope he is over this by the time I get off of work tonight.