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bikini horrors

Now that it's pretty much bikini weather up here, I was thinking of buying a new suit.  I've gained all this weight during the winter though (and post wedding, really).  I'm so embarrassed!  I don't mind how I look naked, but I just know I'll not like the bikini look.  Anyone else feeling bikini-phobic (and they weren't before)?  Maybe I should just find a nudist beach.
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Re: bikini horrors

  • Me Me Me! I have a pool in my backyard so I have been out in my bikini this summer and while I am more self-conscience than normal I still am trying to have the "I don 't care that I am a fatty" attitude.

    I must say, after going to Jamaica and hanging out at the au natural beach, I am much more accepting of my "flaws."  

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  • I've definitely moved away from the bikinis and more to the tankinis/really cute one-pieces. I found a really cute gold one-piece at target last year that has sort of a vintage feel and I love that. My body= no longer bikini appropriate and I'm not afraid to admit it.
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  • Oh man. I just had a meltdown last weekend while buying my first ever tankini. Although it is cute, it is not what I am used to. I hope to be bakc into a bikini by next summer though. I am also still trying to cling on to the "I don't care that i'm a fatty" attitude but it is not working!
  • Hence why I have not been to be beach yet (although it really haven't been warm enough that often) and also my salad as a side to my burger last night instead of tater tots or mac & cheese.

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  • I haven't felt comfortable in a bikini since I was a preteen...I have been debating a new bathing suit, I saw a really cute one piece that I think may be somewhat slimming, but I haven't convinced myself to spend more money (let alone DH)
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  • I defintely do not have a bikini body, but to me having that quantity of my ghostly white skin exposed is much more frightening.

    I don't mind being in a bikini far away on vacation where I don't know anyone, but around friends and family I am definitely more self conscious.

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    I defintely do not have a bikini body, but to me having that quantity of my ghostly white skin exposed is much more frightening.

    I don't mind being in a bikini far away on vacation where I don't know anyone, but around friends and family I am definitely more self conscious.

     

    I totally forgot about that aspect. As a ginger, I have absolutely no prospect of tanning and so I'm whiter than an albino dolphin. Plus tankinis/one-pieces cut down on the amount of sunscreen I go through :)

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  • imagerccola1981:
    I haven't felt comfortable in a bikini since I was a preteen...I have been debating a new bathing suit, I saw a really cute one piece that I think may be somewhat slimming, but I haven't convinced myself to spend more money (let alone DH)

    Same here

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    imagechristieep:

    I defintely do not have a bikini body, but to me having that quantity of my ghostly white skin exposed is much more frightening.

    I don't mind being in a bikini far away on vacation where I don't know anyone, but around friends and family I am definitely more self conscious.

     

    I totally forgot about that aspect. As a ginger, I have absolutely no prospect of tanning and so I'm whiter than an albino dolphin. Plus tankinis/one-pieces cut down on the amount of sunscreen I go through :)

    All of this, except I'm a very fair-skinned brunette.  People expect me to be tan just because I live on the Gulf coast of FL, but I rarely have time to work on a tan, and I use a high-SPF sunblock when I know I'll be out in the sun for any length of time.  I also do not have a bikini body, so I wear the "board short" style of suit bottoms (to cover my larger bottom half) with tankini tops.  :-)

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    I haven't worn a bikini since I was a little kid because I'm a Fatty Mcfatpants lol but surprisingly enough, I'm totally comfortable in a bathing suite.  I have a tankini and a 1 piece and feel like I look pretty cute in both.  It has never ever bothered me; I think I realized at a young age that everyone is so worried about how they look in a bathing suite that they are more focused on themselves than they are you.

    Think about it, if you are laying on a beach having fun are you really sitting there judging how other people look?  If I see some super hottie I'll glance a couple times but I never give the average Jane and Joe Smith a second glance.  I think the majority of people are this way, or at least I hope so because it sure makes me feel more comfortable thinking no one gives a crap how I look in my bathing suite.

     

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