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I'm going to lose it on my MIL
She's the most passive aggressive person!!!!
All this frickin drama around Father's Day when we told her we'd accommodate whatever they wanted to do. I feel like she likes playing the victim card and I'm soooo sick of it.
She invited us up for church on father's day. I said to Pat that we'd do that and then stop by my parent's house for a bbq on the way home after. Simple, easy peasy.
Then I hear he's invited them down for a bbq to our house Sunday afternoon. Ok...he shouldn't have done that, but I told him that was fine, I'd rearrange things with my parents. We were just waiting on hearing back from his parents if they could make it down due to car trouble.
I just got an email from her sent out to me and all her friends:
"I am going to finally get to go to Portland for supplies and take John on a Father's Day outing to the ocean this weekend. Thought that Pat might come up but that fell through so we will do something by ourselves for a little break from the schedule."
What the f***? I am so mad I'm shaking. How dare she? She's so passive aggressive.
Here is my response back and I don't care if it starts a war:
"Mary, this makes me so sad and I'm confused. There has obviously been some miscommunication.
Then I see this email and realize that it seems a lot of things are miscommunicated. I'm at a loss and don't know what to do or say. I even told Pat that we'd do whatever it took to see you guys and we'd see my parents at a different time to accommodate whatever you wanted to do."
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I agree with this. So weird! I'm sorry you have to deal with this
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Ditto!
I cannot believe she sent it to all of her friends too! What an evil thing to do.
Great response and I totally agree you should have hit reply all. Ugh. I'm sorry Jaime.
Me too! Did you hear back from her at all?
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