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We told my sister and BIL this past weekend

And oddly enough  I did not get the reaction that I thought I would.  She didn't say much at all which I am totally surprised about.  She just says I don't know why you would want more than one.. things like that but I thought for sure I would hear how disappointed she is that I don't have a house yet and how we are going to live with his mom forever and blah blah blah.  So guess I shouldn't have dreaded telling them in the first place.
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  • Well that's good that it was better than you expected.  I hope she doesn't start piping up with comments about it now that she knows.  I can't believe your almost 16 weeks already!  These S08 pregnancies seem to fly by when you aren't the one pregnant!
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  • well I am glad you told them.

    your sister needs to follow by the rule of:

    if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't. 

     

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    I'm glad it was better than expected but I'm sorry you still feel like they are judging you. That's awful. I stressed for years about sharing the news with my SIL if she hadn't had a child by the time we were pregnant (different situation than yours I believe) but can sympathesize with the stress of telling someone.
  • imageSugarhillHnA:
    Well that's good that it was better than you expected.  I hope she doesn't start piping up with comments about it now that she knows.  I can't believe your almost 16 weeks already!  These S08 pregnancies seem to fly by when you aren't the one pregnant!

    It is going fast for me also, but I think it is because I found out pretty late into the pregnancy.  I was about 8 weeks when that happened. Maybe from now on it will slow down for me.  I would like my summer to go by slowly...

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  • imagemesa81:
    I'm glad it was better than expected but I'm sorry you still feel like they are judging you. That's awful. I stressed for years about sharing the news with my SIL if she hadn't had a child by the time we were pregnant (different situation than yours I believe) but can sympathesize with the stress of telling someone.

    Yes, I just feel so much relief that I don't have to think about it anymore.  It's over with and if they get annoyed too bad for them because everyone else is happy for us including us.

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  • yay, I'm glad it went better than expected and I hope she keeps her comments down through the pregnancy.

    Happy 17 monthday to Dylan!

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