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Planning a "see you soon" party, any suggestions?

Hi Ladies,  I am planning a "See You Soon" party for my husband as he gets ready for his 3rd deployment this late summer. He is only allotted block leave for 6 days this time around, so he wanted to have a BBQ so he can see all his friends/family at one time. The question I have is I would like to make a sign from buildasign, but am having trouble wording it. I was thinking Good luck and Godspeed (DH name), here's to a safe and quick return! Do you think that sounds good? I didn't want something that would set a depressing tone, and yet not cheesy either.   TIA ladies for your input, and if you have any other suggestions I would appreciate it! Have a great weekend!
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Re: Planning a "see you soon" party, any suggestions?

  • You know your H better than we do.  If it were myself or my H leaving, any sign would be a depressing reminder.  MH doesn't even like to see anyone outside of me and our kids for several days before he leaves.  It makes it harder on him when everyone has the deployment on the brain.  Having the reminder, literally, hanging over your head would just keep it in everyone's faces through the entire party.  JMO, though. 
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  • I have no advice bc MH is the complete opposite.  He wouldn't even want a party.
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  • Thank you for the reply. I know my H won't mind, and it's not going to be the focal point of the party. I just wanted something encouraging for him. The way his family rolls, the deployment is all they will talk about that night anyway haha. That is why my husband wanted a party, to be able to visit the family and friends for one night and get it over with so I'm respecting his wishes. The good thing is we are having the party the 1st day he's back home, so the rest of the week we can relax and get ready to deal with this deployment. Again, thanks!
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  • DH wants a BBQ when hes home on R&R. Also so everyone can see him. We arn't doing a sign though, that way everyone gets to visit with him and have fun without having to be reminded hes leaving soon.
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  • Maybe something positive like "We love you, XXXX! We're behind you 100%!"

    My DH would get pissed if I put something in there about a quick return. Something to do with him not being able to make time pass faster so don't mention it. Just a thought. 

    I personally would do something cheesy, like "Have a good trip! See you next Fall!" bc he was airborne... Maybe something that rhymes, to keep it light? Or a reference to kids, favorite pet, hobby? "Don't worry, we'll yell at the ref for you!" or something.

  • Instead of a banner could you have everyone bring a favorite picture of him with themselves?  You could put it in a book for him to take with him.  They could write their well wishes along side (or on the back of) the photo.
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    Thank you for the reply. I know my H won't mind, and it's not going to be the focal point of the party. I just wanted something encouraging for him. The way his family rolls, the deployment is all they will talk about that night anyway haha. That is why my husband wanted a party, to be able to visit the family and friends for one night and get it over with so I'm respecting his wishes. The good thing is we are having the party the 1st day he's back home, so the rest of the week we can relax and get ready to deal with this deployment. Again, thanks!

    Sorry, but if that is how his family and friends are, I don't buy for a second that they will leave you alone the rest of the week.

     

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  • imageSgt M's Wife:
    Instead of a banner could you have everyone bring a favorite picture of him with themselves?  You could put it in a book for him to take with him.  They could write their well wishes along side (or on the back of) the photo.

    I love this idea!  

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    imageCARLY78:
    Thank you for the reply. I know my H won't mind, and it's not going to be the focal point of the party. I just wanted something encouraging for him. The way his family rolls, the deployment is all they will talk about that night anyway haha. That is why my husband wanted a party, to be able to visit the family and friends for one night and get it over with so I'm respecting his wishes. The good thing is we are having the party the 1st day he's back home, so the rest of the week we can relax and get ready to deal with this deployment. Again, thanks!

    Sorry, but if that is how his family and friends are, I don't buy for a second that they will leave you alone the rest of the week. 

    kdodge His family can be a little overbearing I admit, but my DH has firmly established the boundaries when it comes to pre and post deployment gatherings (thank the Lord). And the last 2 deployments they have listened to what he wanted. I love that idea Sgt M! I will let people know if they want to do that, they are more than welcome to. I decided I won't do a banner after all, but just write him an extra sweet note and have him read it after the send off. Thank you for the suggestions ladies!

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  • imageSgt M's Wife:
    Instead of a banner could you have everyone bring a favorite picture of him with themselves?  You could put it in a book for him to take with him.  They could write their well wishes along side (or on the back of) the photo.

    I love this idea.  I am putting together pics and scanning them (ones that are not digtal) and using shutterfly or one of those to create a "story book" I think that is what they call it.  It basically looks like a small coffee table book for him to take. 

     

  • I love the banner/picture idea. When DH went on his first deployment, I emailed everyone privately (friends and family on both sides) and asked them to send me pictures of themselves with the hubs, and add a little message for him. Then I printed them all out and put them together in a big scrapbook. He loved it, and he took it with him on both of his previous deployments and still has it to this day. 

     I suck at banner wording, but I think I would keep it light and funny (if that is his personality). I'd probably go with something like, "Hope you enjoy not having to take the trash out for seven months!" or something silly like that. 

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