North Florida Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Tirade Tuesday!
boy have I got a good one for today...
Love 9.3.03
Marriage 12.1.07
Baby Carriage 8.3.11
Re: Tirade Tuesday!
To make a very long story short, DH went golfing then to eat with his friends in Daytona. Talked to him at 4:30, said he'd be leaving soon and I should plan on him for dinner. I figured he'd leave at 5, get home 6:30 at the latest. After calling him every 15 minutes and texting from 6:15 on, I finally text his friend who says at 7:30 DH is still in Daytona at the restaurant with the guys. DH finally calls me at 7:45 and didn't get any of my calls or texts (which I believe b/c his phone is crap). I ask why HE didn't bother calling ME during those 3 hours to say hey, turns out I won't be home for dinner, I'm going to stay a little longer. He "lost track of time" apparently. THREE HOURS?! I can understand an hour when you're shooting the breeze over a beer with the guys, but 3 hours? When you said you'd be home for dinner? And have an 8 mo. pregnant wife at home who you haven't heard from or thought to contact just to check up on?! Seriously, he's lucky I didn't strangle him with his iPod cord last night in his sleep. I was (and still am, a little) livid. GAH!
As an aside, he's NEVER done this before, and rarely sees his friends, so I'm 100% happy he spent time with them, but he needs to check in and get a new goddamn cell phone, his really is a POS... UGH!
I've told y'all that DH & I are in counseling. Last night in our session, he was totally deflecting & bringing up some really petty bullshit. It pissed me off like whoa. & I just got a VM from our counselor asking me to come in for some private sessions.
I just wish he'd grow the fuuck up & confront me like an adult when he's upset with me instead of blindsiding me with something that's been bothering him for months/years. We all know that's crap & unfair.
Not cool DH. Not cool. I mean, I know you're only 35 weeks but you could have been in labor or something. 3 hours is a long time not to be in touch when he knows he was supposed to be home.
Mine is just that I hate my table.
My DH does that too. He'll bring up stuff that happened months ago in an argument and I'm like WTF?? Where did that come from?? I'm sorry, I hope the counseling helps!
Nor do I. I'd lose my mind. I love my kid like crazy, but we all need a break sometimes.