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Did you kiss DH on the first date?

I kissed my dh on first date but just a quick goodbye kiss. Just enough to make him wanting more if you know what I mean ;)

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  • I only hugged him.  Which, I found out YEARS later (like 9 years later) that it totally hurt his feelings. lol

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    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.
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  • Oh yes, we made out on his couch for a few hours. But we'd also known each other for 18 years before that (we went to the same middle school and high school, and re-met at our high school reunion). I went home at some ridiculous hour - like 5am or something like that.
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  • Just a hug for us. Maybe I was a bit prudish, but he's shy anyway so I doubt he would have initiated anything lol.
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  • Nope.  No kissing until the 3rd date.  But, once we did it lasted for almost 3 hours! :-D  Technically he kissed my forehead on the 2nd date.  It was very sweet and apparently VERY outgoing for him to do that.  He still says he can't believe he did that. LOL!
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  • Our first date was after we had hung out three or four other times not on "dates."

    We met when the Houston area was basically shut down because of hurricane Rita.  His good friend lives next door to my parents.  They'd been trying to set us up for a year so since I was staying with my parents during the hurricane so I wasn't home alone, they took the opportunity.

    Anyway, we hung out two of those nights, and on the second, after everyone else went to bed, we stayed up until 3 or 4 a.m. talking by my parents' pool.  When he left, he kissed me...just a small, gentleman-like kiss.  And then he called me the next day, which I loved!

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    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    LMAO I should of posted "bj" instead of kiss for you Xan!! You just made my day!

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  • DyorkDyork member
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    Yeah we did. Just a quick goodbye kiss when he was leaving. But we had also known each other, and hung out for several months before we finally went out on a date.
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  • Yes. He walked me out to my car and we kissed for about 5 minutes before I left.
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  • imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

     

  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    imagelavieboheme73:

    imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

     

    GOOOOOOOOOOOO TEAM SLUT BAGS lol jk

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  • Nope, but we were 13.  Our first kiss was 2.5 months after we were "dating", on New Years Day, 2000
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    I did, but it was a pretty tame goodnight kiss.
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    Nope.  No kissing until the 3rd date.  But, once we did it lasted for almost 3 hours! :-D  Technically he kissed my forehead on the 2nd date.  It was very sweet and apparently VERY outgoing for him to do that.  He still says he can't believe he did that. LOL!

    I mean this in the friendliest, non-husband-stealing sort of way, but I think I love your DH a little bit. First it was that smile, now this.

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  • Yep, it wasn't supposed to be a "date" but it ended up being one. When I dropped him off at his truck he just kissed me and it was a real kiss none of the peck stuff. I was totally shocked. I pulled away and called my best friend and was totally squealing. I had just told her earlier in the night that I was going to marry DH some day, I was so right!
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    Nope.  No kissing until the 3rd date.  But, once we did it lasted for almost 3 hours! :-D  Technically he kissed my forehead on the 2nd date.  It was very sweet and apparently VERY outgoing for him to do that.  He still says he can't believe he did that. LOL!

    I mean this in the friendliest, non-husband-stealing sort of way, but I think I love your DH a little bit. First it was that smile, now this.

    Haha!  Awww, thanks!  He's very lovable.  And his smile melts my heart... 

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  • imagelavieboheme73:

    imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

    Oh, I TOTES slept with a total stranger once (we ended up dating off and on for a year or so) but just not with Keith. lol


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  • Yes. We had been hanging out as "friends" for a month before-hand though.
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  • imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    I love your response Xan!  I love that we are so open with each other!

    DH and I did not kiss on our first date, I wasn't actually too sure about him after that date so it took a few more dates for me to kiss him, but it was good when I did and I haven't stopped since!

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  • imageTishaPayne:
    imagelavieboheme73:

    imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

    Oh, I TOTES slept with a total stranger once (we ended up dating off and on for a year or so) but just not with Keith. lol

     

    I love the three of you!!

    We kissed on the first date. Our first date I slept over. We were laying on his bed and he leaned over and asked if he could kiss me. I pulled away shocked and acted all innocent. But then I totally spent the night. Totally legit though, we slept no funny business that was saved for the 5th date.

    I didn't really know him. We had talked online for two months though, and I had met him before at a bar (twice) But hadn't realized it was all the same guy.
    So I am an other level slut bag. haha

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  • imageTishaPayne:
    imagelavieboheme73:

    imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

    Oh, I TOTES slept with a total stranger once (we ended up dating off and on for a year or so) but just not with Keith. lol

     

    I love the three of you!!

    We kissed on the first date. Our first date I slept over. We were laying on his bed and he leaned over and asked if he could kiss me. I pulled away shocked and acted all innocent. But then I totally spent the night. Totally legit though, we slept no funny business that was saved for the 5th date.

    I didn't really know him. We had talked online for two months though, and I had met him before at a bar (twice) But hadn't realized it was all the same guy.
    So I am an other level slut bag. haha

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  • We did, he was such a gentleman that night that I was sure it'd take forever to sleep together...yeah not so much, it was about 3 weeks later if that.  He was afraid to hold my hand on the first date (which was after several "friends" outings) and when he walked me to my car he asked for permission before kissing me.  The next night I went back to his place after our concert and we made out for the first time and from there things moved much more quickly.
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  • I think I actually technically put out on our first date. Embarrassed But we had been friends for a little while and had done the whole make out thing before our actual first date. There had been a lot of sexual tension in our friendship so it was really only a matter of time.

  • imageTishaPayne:
    imagelavieboheme73:

    imageXan921:
    Well I'm a big sl*t bag lol because I totally gave him a blow job the very first night we met lol.  We had talked online and on the phone for 9 months though and then he was staying in my dorm room with me, in my twin bed, so I figured might as well Devil  I am assuming we kissed too? Geez I don't even remember our first kiss but I remember the first bj, what a wh*re lol.

    Jeez, ya big hooch bag!

    Nah, I'm just joking.  If you're a big slut, I am too.  Ron kissed me goodnight when he dropped me off at my house after our first date...it was all very gentlemanly...he asked if he could kiss me and everything.  But then he called me as he was driving home and said he hadn't wanted to leave me at the door, and I told him he should turn back around and come back, then.  Yeah...he left at 5 the next morning.  But, like you, we had known each other for a while before making the "dating" thing official, so it's not like I slept with a total stranger on the first date.

    Oh, I TOTES slept with a total stranger once (we ended up dating off and on for a year or so) but just not with Keith. lol

     

    Gosh, Tisha, you're even a bigger whore than me!  I didn't think that was possible.  I bow to you, Queen of the Hoochies! :)

  • Nope, no kiss on the first date for us. Though I did initiate a hug and DH was so freaking akward about it I wasn't sure if he even liked me until he texted me when he got home that night. I still give him crap about how akward he was. It was our first time meeting in person though so I guess it makes sense.

    The second date he kissed me on my cheek and my legs seriously felt like they were going out from under me, I like started stuttering and stuff. It was nuts.

    Our third date he tried to kiss me and I turned my head bc I was sick and didn't think he would want to really kiss me. I found out later he was really bummed, hah.

    We finally kissed on our fourth. finally.

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