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Advice Needed: Not sure what to do with this reference

I'm applying for a new retail sales job and the application form asks for 3 professional references.  I want to list a reference for the most prestigous retail job I had at a major jewelry store in December 2009.  We haven't kept in touch since my temporary position there expired in 12/09.  Should I email/phone her to request if she'll be willing to be a reference for me?  Having her on my reference list is important to me since the position I had there was the most distinguished of my career, but I don't know if she'll say yes or not since we were on friendly terms but not close. Also I left the company in good standing. What's the best thing to do?

TIA!

Re: Advice Needed: Not sure what to do with this reference

  • Send her an email to see.  Why not? 
  • imagejennifer0124:
    Send her an email to see.  Why not? 

    Thanks, Jennifer.

    Now I'm worrying about how I should write the title of my email to her.  Any suggestions to get her attention so she won't delete it?

  • Of course you should. What would your other option(s) be? Use her without her knowledge?

    ETA: Why would she delete it? Just e-mail her, re-introduce yourself, and tell her you'd like to talk to her about being a reference for you.

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  • She might delete it because last year when I tried to call her to ask to be a reference she never called back.  I'm just not 100% sure about her.
  • imageMelissa66:
    She might delete it because last year when I tried to call her to ask to be a reference she never called back.  I'm just not 100% sure about her.

    Maybe use someone else at the company then?

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  • imageMelissa66:
    She might delete it because last year when I tried to call her to ask to be a reference she never called back.  I'm just not 100% sure about her.

    There are a million reasons that could have happened. It's worth a shot instead of fretting over the possibility of her not returning an e-mail.

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  • I would call again and send a follow up email asking her permission to use her as a reference if she doesn't pick up the phone.
  • I agree. Call and follow up via email. The worst that can happen is she can say no - or delete it.
  • I agree!  It's worth a shot, she was your manager, after all, and it would be logical to use her as a reference.

    This is also a good reason to keep in touch (at least marginally!) with your old contacts, especially ones that you might want as a reference!

    Good luck! 

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