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LinkedIn etiquette question

What is the proper etiquette for "connecting" with a 2nd or 3rd tier connection?  I want to apply for a job with a company that I have a "3rd tier" connection with an HR manager.  Do I go to the person that I know to be connected with that person, or can I go straight to that person and say that I know them through so-and-so?  I figure it's time to start pulling out all the stops to try to find this job!  TIA!
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Re: LinkedIn etiquette question

  • You could do either one, but I think that you would stand out more if your common friend "introduces" you.   If you try and connect on your own, you run the risk of the person ignoring you.
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  • I agree with pp. Honestly, I never connect with candidates on LinkedIn. It's just a personal rule I have and I know a lot of other HR professionals do too. However, I love referrals from other people. 
  • Thank you fabulous ladies!!!  That's what I was thinking, but I wasn't 100% sure. 

     Nesties are the best!!

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  • imageBornToBeABeachBride:
    I agree with pp. Honestly, I never connect with candidates on LinkedIn. It's just a personal rule I have and I know a lot of other HR professionals do too. However, I love referrals from other people. 

    When I come across an outstanding HR candidate I connect with them.  You never know when they may end up being the connection YOU need.

    DH is a recruiter and has a LOT of connections (a thousand or more?).  He does some of his best recruiting that way.  Connections on LinkedIn are not the same as a friends on FB IMO - they don't reflect your "circle."  Instead they just reflect a network you've touched professionally.

     

    "If you can't say something nice, shut the hell up!"
    - Paula Deen to 104.1 KRBE's Producer Eric 9/17/2011
  • imagemichellebelle:

    imageBornToBeABeachBride:
    I agree with pp. Honestly, I never connect with candidates on LinkedIn. It's just a personal rule I have and I know a lot of other HR professionals do too. However, I love referrals from other people. 

    When I come across an outstanding HR candidate I connect with them.  You never know when they may end up being the connection YOU need.

    DH is a recruiter and has a LOT of connections (a thousand or more?).  He does some of his best recruiting that way.  Connections on LinkedIn are not the same as a friends on FB IMO - they don't reflect your "circle."  Instead they just reflect a network you've touched professionally.

     

    Connecting with fellow HR professionals is not the same IMO. Neither is a recruiter (whose job it is to network) adding people on LinkedIn.

    I have been to a number of HR social media workshops that strongly discourage adding candidates on LinkedIn. Once someone is employed with us, I think that is totally different. For one, I would not want that to come back and bite me in the ass if a candidate added me on LinkedIn and we did not hire them. They could say it was because of their gender/race/appearance/age/etc. People are ridiculous and I would hate to have an EEOC claim brought against us for something stupid.

  • imageBornToBeABeachBride:
    imagemichellebelle:

    imageBornToBeABeachBride:
    I agree with pp. Honestly, I never connect with candidates on LinkedIn. It's just a personal rule I have and I know a lot of other HR professionals do too. However, I love referrals from other people. 

    When I come across an outstanding HR candidate I connect with them.  You never know when they may end up being the connection YOU need.

    DH is a recruiter and has a LOT of connections (a thousand or more?).  He does some of his best recruiting that way.  Connections on LinkedIn are not the same as a friends on FB IMO - they don't reflect your "circle."  Instead they just reflect a network you've touched professionally.

     

    Connecting with fellow HR professionals is not the same IMO. Neither is a recruiter (whose job it is to network) adding people on LinkedIn.

    I have been to a number of HR social media workshops that strongly discourage adding candidates on LinkedIn. Once someone is employed with us, I think that is totally different. For one, I would not want that to come back and bite me in the ass if a candidate added me on LinkedIn and we did not hire them. They could say it was because of their gender/race/appearance/age/etc. People are ridiculous and I would hate to have an EEOC claim brought against us for something stupid.

    Oh I see what you mean - DURING the application process.  I agree there.  What I was talking about was AFTER the application process.  In my recent interviews for 2 positions that report to me, there were several good candidates and for those who could have been selected but weren't the best qualified, I LinkedIn with them.  They might not be the best fit for my current job opening but if I know someone for whose position they ARE a good fit, why not help get them connected?

    "If you can't say something nice, shut the hell up!"
    - Paula Deen to 104.1 KRBE's Producer Eric 9/17/2011
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