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so I am a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding in aug and his fiance has been asking me lately about going to the gym with her. I am like ok, whats behind this? she has not asked once but she has asked me twice, I said, I will go with you on the weekends maybe but then she said, no we need to go everyday, wtf? ok, I have two kids, I work a full time job and I will be damned if I will be getting off of work everyday and working out at the gym. I know I am curvy but damn, lol
Re: should I be offended?
Um, yeah, I would be offended. You can't ask someone to be a bridesmaid and then force them to go to boot camp to look the way you want them to look. Sounds like a bridezilla in the making. F*** that.
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i think i want to laugh, but i'm not sure
i really hope she isn't being rude and offensive!!!!!
bride brain is way worse than pregnant brain, don't you think?
I would have been annoyed with the nagging to go to the gym... but then at the we can't have cake until after the wedding I would have laughed in her face!!! hahaha and I'd make sure I was eating cake everytime I was around her!
She definitely sounds like someone who wants to be on bridezillas... making girls weigh themselves, putting a lock on the fridge, making your bridesmaids workout. If I encountered that I'd peace out from the wedding party!
you have to call her and tell her your dress doesn't fit.must be all that cake you eat every single day.
ruin her weekend