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Sympathy Gift for a Pet

Sorry to contribute a sad post this moring, but my brother and SIL had to put down one of their dogs yesterday. She went into kidney failure. I know they are heartbroken and I want to send them something, but I don't know what. I was thinking flowers that they could re-plant in their yard, but they rent and if they move I would want that memory to go with them. I would appreciate any other ideas. Thanks!

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Re: Sympathy Gift for a Pet

  • I wouldn't send a gift.  Just a card or a phone call is good.

    Offer to take them out next week or something.

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    First, I am so sorry for their loss.

    When we lost our cats, someone gave us a poem about losing a pet that they had put on a pet themed scrapbook page, decorated with stickers and framed.  We have it with their ashes.

    Honestly, though, what I really wanted was for people to acknowledge that losing a pet is like losing a member of your family.

    I just remembered that some people on the pets board have found things on etsy - like a nice urn instead of a wooden box for their pets' ashes.  Maybe you could do something like that? Or if they rescued the dog, maybe a donation in the dog's name to that rescue group?

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  • oh - yes, donation to a pet/animal charity
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  • I think a nice sympathy card is the best thing. My mom received a few when our old dog died and displayed them around the urn (well a wooden box really.)  It wasnt as morbid as it sounds, I promise.

     

    But try to stay away from that damn rainbow bridge poem/story.  The vet gave my parents a card with that on it and every time I so much as looked at it I burst into tears.

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    I think a nice sympathy card is the best thing. My mom received a few when our old dog died and displayed them around the urn (well a wooden box really.)  It wasnt as morbid as it sounds, I promise.

     

    But try to stay away from that damn rainbow bridge poem/story.  The vet gave my parents a card with that on it and every time I so much as looked at it I burst into tears.

    We got a couple of those - they are super sad.  The poem I mentioned in my reply isn't RB, thankfully.

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  • My old dog passed right before christmas last year, and a friend (a nestie actually) got me an ornament with her name and a pawprint on it.   It's just a plain etched glass oval, so it's not overtly christmasy and I could display it year round if I wanted to.

    I was SO touched.  Some sort of momento like that might be nice if you want to go above and beyond a sympathy card.

  • When my dog Murphy died recently, an aunt that I am not close to sent me a sympathy card with a really nice personal note. It was really sweet and I appreciated it more than I can explain.
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    imagemrsbecky07:

    I think a nice sympathy card is the best thing. My mom received a few when our old dog died and displayed them around the urn (well a wooden box really.)  It wasnt as morbid as it sounds, I promise.

     

    But try to stay away from that damn rainbow bridge poem/story.  The vet gave my parents a card with that on it and every time I so much as looked at it I burst into tears.

    We got a couple of those - they are super sad.  The poem I mentioned in my reply isn't RB, thankfully.

    I just googled it and looked at it.  Stupid stupid stupid. We have lots of dogs waiting for us.  Crying

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  • Thank you for the suggestions. I am definately sending a card, and the donation to their favorite pet charity is a great idea, or maybe a donation to the rescue they got her from. I have seen ornaments for pets before, so I will look into that. They could definately put that up in their house.

    I wish I could take them both out, but they live in Denver, so I can't do that right now. 

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  • Someone got my parents "Dog Heaven" by Cynthia Rylant when their dog passed. It's a children's book but it touched my mom so much. Maybe worth looking into?
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  • All Dogs go to Heaven DVD or really, a donation I think would be the best
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