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7 Deadly Sins -- Greed

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Greed is an excessive desire to possess wealth or goods with the intention to keep it for one's self. Greed - like lust and gluttony - is a sin of excess. Greed is inappropriate expectation. However, greed is applied to a very excessive or rapacious desire and pursuit of wealth, status, and power.

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Re: 7 Deadly Sins -- Greed

  • I don't really see myself as a greedy person. I'm usually satisfied with my lot in life. I do wish that I had enough money to pay off the debt we carry so we wouldn't have to worry about that anymore. But I don't really see that as being greedy.
  • This one is tricky.  I don't think I'm particularly greedy when it comes to money (hello, I have so much debt I'll probably die before it gets paid off), but I do consider myself kind of greedy in an "I want it all" kind of way - I want a successful career, I want to be able to make my own schedule, be my own boss, do what I want to when I want to kind of way.  I like being in charge, and am a huge control freak.  Therefore, I want to be in charge so things get done my way (which is the best way, after all).

    So not really a financial kind of greed, but I'm pretty sure all of the above makes me greedy. 

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  • I don't consider myself a greedy person.  I don't care much for having fancy things, designer labels, wealth, or status.  However, I do wish for more money for experience-type things like vacations, concerts, etc. Maybe that makes me greedy.

    I also don't care much for power.  I don't like to be bossed around, but don't like to boss others around either.

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  • Not gonna lie -- when it comes to money, I will take whatever is given to me, and I can never have enough.  I love money.  I love having it, I love spending it, and I love buying things for myself. 

    In regards to every other aspect of my life, contrary to popular belief, I am not a selfish person.  I will put others' needs before my own, and very rarely do I do anything without first taking into effect how it will affect others around me.

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  • I think this is probably the only one in which I am not. I am more of a giver and part of my debt is obvious of such. Also, if I have money on me and someone needs something, I will tend to get it for them b/c I like to see that joy in their faces. A recent example of how I'm anti-greed is from this past weekend. I put aside some $$ to finally get my hair done. I ended up spending that $$ on more clothing for the baby instead. Sure she has a ton of stuff already but I feel like her having a few more pairs of baby legs, more shoes, outfits & toys are far more important than me getting my hair done. Since it's not stuff she actually needs, I don't feel like it's just me prioritizing; it's me wanting her to have these extra things instead of spending it on myself.
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  • I don't think I'm money greedy. I'm very good at "living within my means." I agree with what nooner said about wanting it all. I'm very guilty of that, to the point that I don't always enjoy what I have, because I'm too busy looking forward to the next thing. And when I want something I want it now.
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    I don't think I'm money greedy. I'm very good at "living within my means." I agree with what nooner said about wanting it all. I'm very guilty of that, to the point that I don't always enjoy what I have, because I'm too busy looking forward to the next thing. And when I want something I want it now.

    yes!  Exactly. 

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  • I, like MB, definitely have some greed issues with money. I love having it, spending it on myself and others and most importantly, but somewhat ironically, saving it. I LOOOOOVE putting money into our ING and watching it earn interest and any time I have to make a wityhdrawl from that account it hurts me. Paying for big ticket items out of our savings, which is what it is there for, always hurts me. I think I may have been a victim of the Great Depression in a previous life. I am not so greedy however that I would do anything to get more money; I'm all about getting my money through hard work and the occasional gift. People who embezzle and cheat  others to get their fortunes sicken me.

    The other thing I'm greedy with is time. I am always looking to monopolize certain people's time with plans, outings, etc...and can be rather childish and pouty when I don't get it. This is especially true with my DH; I have to really watch that I don't put up too much of a fight on the rare evening he wants to hang out with the boys on his own.

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