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New Mom/Baby Gift

One of my friends is about to have her first baby (today actually!), so I wanted to give her/her family a little basket when she gets home (for her and the baby). Any suggestions on what to put in it? I don't have children yet, so I don't really know what new moms would like! TIA!!

Re: New Mom/Baby Gift

  • I would have loved some good lotion (unscented) and a gift card to order in food!  I washed my hands SO much those first few months that they got dry, cracked, etc.  A good lotion was necessary.  Also, that first week home we didn't cook.  We snacked and ordered food. 
    * DS1...allergic to dairy, peanuts, eggs and turkey *
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  • Ditto the snacks- I barely had time to eat or cook for that matter.  Stuff like granola bars, those pb crackers and a nut mix are good energy boosters.

    Hand sanitizers (even the to-go ones are nice and small to stick in a pocket).

    For baby- childrens books are always good at our house or a cute picture frame.

     

  • food - giftcards for pizza, jimmy johns, any place that delivers really. That was our biggest hurdle - just trying to find time for a hot meal - because that first week can be chaotic and sleep deprived - we certainly didnt have time to cook. Sleep was more important. Showers were quick.

    DO NOT put a basket together with candles, body wash, newborn clothes, or any stuff like that - I guarentee it wont be used, or even on their minds - chances are, it will still be sitting in the basket in a corner of some room a few weeks later still.

    I also didnt really want a whole lot of visitors for a while, I just felt like shitt - make sure your visit is short and sweet - and maybe say something like "hey, I know you might not want visitors for a while - you just call and tell me when to come see you guys!" That way, its on her terms - rather than being bombarded with people who have good intentions, but can wear a new mom out easily.

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    I also didnt really want a whole lot of visitors for a while, I just felt like shitt - make sure your visit is short and sweet - and maybe say something like "hey, I know you might not want visitors for a while - you just call and tell me when to come see you guys!" That way, its on her terms - rather than being bombarded with people who have good intentions, but can wear a new mom out easily.

    Yes!  And do not stay longer than like 30 minutes.  You can come back in a few weeks to visit longer after the dust has settled.  I had friends come over and stay forever.  Finally I had to say "ok, time for me to pump" and go upstairs.  It was awkward.

    * DS1...allergic to dairy, peanuts, eggs and turkey *
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

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    love is for every her, love is for every him, love is for everyone
  • totally K - and plus, I was all over the map emotionally - so while the family was over here having a ball, I was in my room crying because I just wanted to sleep and I couldnt with all the noise and visitors.
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