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So, we are making moves to cut FIL out of our lives.

Personally, I'm thrilled. He still owes us a substantial sum of money, and until that money is paid off, he'll still be around. But last night I was talking to DH and told him that I'm sick of it. Usually we go to my parents house for Christmas and FIL makes this whole big deal that we have to come over to his house the day after to open his sh!tty presents he got us. DH said we are not going, and we're not buying him gifts. We are also not spending Thanksgiving with FIL. DH has had his limit, I reached mine long ago, and we are done.

Re: So, we are making moves to cut FIL out of our lives.

  • Excellent. Glad you're both in agreement about this now. FIL sounds like a tool and you guys don't need that in your lives.
  • Good for DH! Everyone has their limit, and it sounds like a good thing that he's finally reached his.

     

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  • I'm glad to see that you guys reached a concensus and are standing your ground together as a couple.  I'm sure it's difficult for DH because it's his father--- but sometimes people are just toxic to us
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  • What a great holiday gift to yourselves!
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  • I'm glad for you. He sounds like a real ass and you don't need that.

     Please let me know how this goes, so we can eventually cut my IL's out of our lives.

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  • Good for you, PMeg.  You'll finally get to enjoy your holidays!  Yay!
  • wow, it's going to be the merriest of Christmases in the Pmeg home this year!
  • Glad to hear you are both on the same page.  Hopefully the holidays will be a lot more pleasant for you guys this year.

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  • I obviously don't know all of the crap that you have put up with from him, but it sounds like he really wants to spend time with you guys.  Does he always find a way to take advantage of you during those times together or does he abuse you in other ways?   If not, is there another way that you could work it out rather than just cutting him out completely?  It seems harsh to cut out a parent just because they owe money and are unpleasant to be around.
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