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I Have an Announcement.

DH & I are getting a divorce.

& it's totally okay. 


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Re: I Have an Announcement.

  • ::Hugs:: I know that couldn't have been an easy decision.
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  • I just saw your facebook and immediately came over here and saw this.  I'm here if you need to talk.  *E-hug*
  • Oh CD, Im so sorry.  If you need to talk let me know.
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  • You know I'm here for you, whatever you need, even if that means draining my wine rack ;)

    Seriously though, I'm glad you worked hard to find out what the right decision was, and we're all here to support you now that you've decided.  

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  • I'm sorry to hear that CD! I'm here if you ever want to chat.  ((((hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry. Even if it's "ok," it still has to be incredibly difficult. At least you did what you needed to be at peace with the decision. Let me know if you ever want to split that bottle of wine I mentioned. ::hugs::
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  • It seems like you're handling it well, but I'm sorry anyway, I know this wasn't an easy decision to make. I'm here to support you, you have my number if you need anything!

  • Oh, I'm so sorry. I know I haven't met you yet but I'm also here for you anytime you need to talk/vent! Hang in there... things will get better soon.
  • I'm so proud of you for how strong you've been through all of this. I know you put in a lot of effort and took serious time to come to this decision. While I'm sad for you, I'm also happy that you can now focus on making yourself happy again. You know I'm here for you.
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  • ^sorry that was me... I need to figure out how to delete an old account already. Ugh
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  • so sorry to hear this but hopefully it will lead to happier lives for both of you in the future.  good luck with everything.
  • Sorry to hear this. I'm no good at having the right thing to say.. but I hope you can both get to a happier place.

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  • I'm sorry to hear that, CD.  But, I know just from the little bit you've discussed here that you guys have been working on things and clearly made the decision with lots of thought and consideration.  Although, I'm sure it wasn't easy.  I definitley wish you the best!
  • I am sorry! I know this was not an easy thing for you to do. Like I told you yesterday I am here if you need anything.
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  • I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision. If you need anything, I'm here.
  • I know this was a hard decision, but hopefully you can focus on making yourself happier now. It sucks, but I'm sure it's for the best. *Hugs* You know I'm here if you ever need to talk.
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  • Thanks, ladies. I'm lucky to consider y'all my friends.

    H & I are actually dealing with this really well. We love one another, but we know we're not meant to be together forever. We feel the relationship has run its course. Its the most bizarre thing. We're getting along better now than we have in months. 

    I just called my boss & told him I'm not coming in today. Just because this is amicable doesn't mean I'm not crying in my cheerios over it. H took me to breakfast at Metro Diner (yeah, we're been awake since about 5:30) & now I've crawled my butt back into bed to get some sleep. Everything just feels so surreal.

    Thank you all again Smile

     


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  • I was thinking about you this morning.  I'm glad you decided to take the day off.
  • So glad to hear that you decided to take the day off and that you're taking care of yourself. Sometimes I think the amicable splits where you're nice and civil can almost be even more difficult. I think without the anger you're able to feel the full weight of the sadness. Figuring out that you're just not right for each other is an extremely difficult realization to come to and I think you are a very strong & brave woman for taking the path that you feel is right for you. You're going to be just fine. ;)
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    So glad to hear that you decided to take the day off and that you're taking care of yourself. Sometimes I think the amicable splits where you're nice and civil can almost be even more difficult. I think without the anger you're able to feel the full weight of the sadness. Figuring out that you're just not right for each other is an extremely difficult realization to come to and I think you are a very strong & brave woman for taking the path that you feel is right for you. You're going to be just fine. ;)

    Very well said!  CD I know I have never met you in person but we have known each other through knotties and nesties.  From what I can tell you are a strong woman and I know you will get through this difficult time and be even stronger for it.  You have worked so hard to make the relationship work and now you are doing what is right with no regrets later on.  We are here for ya!

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  • I'm sorry you're going through a tough time right now. But this too shall pass, and I'm glad that the two of you were able to decide what is best.
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  • You are a very strong person and I know it was hard for you to come to this after all the work you all put into it. I'm sorry!! 

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  • So sorry you are going through that! I hope this is a great new beginning for you.
  • I'm so sorry, CD.  You're clearly a very brave and strong woman to be able to walk away from a marriage that you know isn't right for you, and I applaud you (and your DH) for it.  I know it's going to be hard, but you've got a lot of ladies in your corner.  If there's anything I can do, I'm here.
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  • I wish you the best with this. 
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