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Spicy Friday

What is the ideal frequency of sex in your opinion?

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Re: Spicy Friday

  • I think 3-4 times a week would be ideal for me.  We probably average out to slightly less than that.
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  • I agree, 3-4 times a week.  Lately it is non-existent as we wait for my D&C follow-up, but usually it ends up being about twice a week (at least during the school year...)
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  • I'd probably say twice a week.
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    3-4 times a week, but I'd say its usually more like 3 times.
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  • Ideally, 3-4 times a week.  Since kids, ummmm maybe once a week. Sad
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  • I'm curious to know if there is anyone whose ideal would be every day.  I guess it sounds nice in theory....but I get chafed, yo.  (Plus I don't know if I'd have the energy for it everyday.)

    On the other end of the spectrum, are there people who would be perfectly happy with once or twice a month?

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  • I agree with 3-4 times. I'd say we also average a little lower than that lately.

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  • I'm happy with once or twice a week, and we're lucky to hit once or twice a month. I'm hoping after baby comes and we're given the okay, things can heat back up. I really attribute most of my lack of mood to my birth control. I think I'll be trying something different and non-hormonal this go round. DH should be happier, too.
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  • Since Myles it's been daily. After the triplets until Myles it was sporadic at best. I'd like to get back to the 3-4 times a week action happening though.
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  • We're a consistent 3-4x most often, but are currently rocking an empty nest (kids are at the other parent's house) so it may or may not be 5-6 right now.  Cool

    Once or twice a month would be unacceptable (under normal circumstances - barring any injury or illness of course).

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  • Another vote for 3-4 times per week. I'd say that we generally average close to 3. Right now with Kyle working oot though it's more like 1-2 since he's only been home a night or two each week.
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  • I'd say 3 - 4 times a week, but we usually only manage on the weekends, so we're getting about 2 - 3 right now.
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  • I agree...3-4 times a week, and we usually get to 2-3 times a week. I cannot imagine doing it only once or twice a month.
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  • Ideal for me would be 3 times a week. But sadly neither of us have been "in the mood" much lately so we've been averaging more like 3 times a month. Sad

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  • I would love if it could be even 3 times a week. We still haven't DTD since we had Olivia. Hopefully we can have a date night and my mom will watch her because I'm seriously dying for it right now.
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