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Rough Morning. Sad Kids = Sad Mom UPDATE

Overall, daycare day #1 went pretty well.

Connor cried a a lot when I left, but got better shortly after.

Paige had rough spots all throughout the day and was much sadder.

They came home excited and tired from a good day.

 

This morning... we haven't left yet... just eating some breakfast...

And Connor has been having mini emotional meltdowns all morning. He really said he liked "school" (we call it school) and  had a good time ,

but he's been crying so much this morning and even said "I  want to stay home" mid-cry...

Ugh...he's killing me...

update::

as we were leaving Paige was still happy and anxious to go.

Connor was just teetering between one meltdown and the next. He finally said "mommy I need a doctor"... I asked him why... "eyes hurt..."

Hmm just so happens mommy has an eye doctor appointment today. Nice try though kiddo.

Drop off -HORRIBLE! two screaming, inconsolable toddlers screaming and crying and clinging to their mommy. Ugh it was such an ordeal... and I barely made it to the car without crying... 

Re: Rough Morning. Sad Kids = Sad Mom UPDATE

  • BIG HUGS K. You're doing the right thing lady, deep breath. He'll be just fine and so will P. Better he have meltdowns now when you're off than when you go back to work. xoxoxoxoxoxo
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  • Awwwwww. I'm sorry, Kendra. (((hugs))) I hope they get used to it quickly.
  • I am sorry, honey. :(  I remember that first week of daycare, I felt sick to my stomach.  They will do okay, I promise.  Hugs Mama.  Big ones. 
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    Aw I'm sorry!  {{hugs}} I'm sure they'll love it in just a few days!
  • it's new experiences for all of you, and it's tough.

    hang in there!

    do the teachers help you at drop off - engage them in something so you can leave?

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    it's new experiences for all of you, and it's tough.

    hang in there!

    do the teachers help you at drop off - engage them in something so you can leave?

    Yes...they were very good at that this morning. Paige was clinging to me, so the one (who we semi-knew from outside of school) was trying to get Paige off me and show her toys, while another corralled Connor to the block table and tried to preoccupy him...

  • it'll also break you heart the day they trot in there and don't even look back at you! no kiss, no bye-mom, not even a glance!
  • Oh, honey, I'm sure they will calm down and once they have a chance to make some friends there, they'll look forward to going every day (and then you'll be sad because they'll be acting like they don't miss you at all!).  I know it's got to be hard to see them so upset, though.  The joys of parenthood, eh?

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  • oh i am so sorry, i hope it gets better

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  • ughh so sorry K... hopefully it is a quick transition
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  • ugh.  double whammy.  i was just reading this on your blog.  chin up K.  hope it get's better soon.  (hugs)
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  • ((hugs))  Hope it will get better!
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  • Like everyone else said, it wil get better.  K has been at daycare since she was 8 weeks old.  Sometime around 16 months, the mornings became like this - not the crying but gripping on so tight that if i was carrying her i needed no hands because she wasn't budging.  It still like that a little, but its getting better.  The drawback is she doesn't want to be picked up to come home either!!  It will get better, I agree with having the teacher keep engaging them!  And save mommy's tears for the car if you can!
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    Like everyone else said, it wil get better.  K has been at daycare since she was 8 weeks old.  Sometime around 16 months, the mornings became like this - not the crying but gripping on so tight that if i was carrying her i needed no hands because she wasn't budging.  It still like that a little, but its getting better.  The drawback is she doesn't want to be picked up to come home either!!  It will get better, I agree with having the teacher keep engaging them!  And save mommy's tears for the car if you can!
    Oh no! K is almost 16 months... I hope she doesn't get like that! Tho I'm lucky because DH does drop off. Right now she loves daycare... When I go to pick her up she looks at me... Waves and goes back to her toys /friends. Don't worry Kendra... It will get easier. I know K has fun at daycare playing all day and I know your LO's will too!
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  • it will get better, give it time... be strong
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    Like everyone else said, it wil get better.  K has been at daycare since she was 8 weeks old.  Sometime around 16 months, the mornings became like this - not the crying but gripping on so tight that if i was carrying her i needed no hands because she wasn't budging.  It still like that a little, but its getting better.  The drawback is she doesn't want to be picked up to come home either!!  It will get better, I agree with having the teacher keep engaging them!  And save mommy's tears for the car if you can!
    Oh no! K is almost 16 months... I hope she doesn't get like that! Tho I'm lucky because DH does drop off. Right now she loves daycare... When I go to pick her up she looks at me... Waves and goes back to her toys /friends. Don't worry Kendra... It will get easier. I know K has fun at daycare playing all day and I know your LO's will too!

    She's gotten a little better - although I've begun to pack quick little snacks that are her favorites for when I leave to distract her a bit - grapes, blueberries, raisins... she usually will grab the bowl and run to the table.  Pick up was a bigger issue - she made such a fuss my mom really didn't want to go get her anymore - and everyone here who knows about my job knows that I definitely need Nana's help!

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