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I'm about to go BSC.

Work is driving me insane and it's not even the people I work directly with.  Why can't people just do their jobs and mind their own business?!  If it doesn't involve you, stay out of it.

 

:::::::closes office door and screams at the top of my lungs::::::::

TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker

Re: I'm about to go BSC.

  • Because that would be too easy!

    Sorry you're having a co-irker filled day. Hopefully this Monday will go by quickly so you can get outta there and go home!

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  • Do you think it's because you said something to co-irker the other day that she is trying to retaliate?  Could you go to your boss and tell them that you are frustrated and why?
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  • I'm sorry hun =( ::hugs::
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  • imageshelley1002:
    Do you think it's because you said something to co-irker the other day that she is trying to retaliate?  Could you go to your boss and tell them that you are frustrated and why?

    Unfortunately, she has ALWAYS been this way.  Her husband died about two weeks after i started in February of 2010 and since then, she's gotten worse.  Everybody walks on eggs shells with her because his death seriously messed her up.  I have been more than accepting of her shittty behavior because of that.  I'm done playing nice now though.  She seriously bullies all of the office associates/coordinators (there are about 25 in our department) and I'm the only one who sticks up for my self.  The big boss (her direct boss) sees her act this way and is totally passive and avoids confrontation like the plague. Therefore, she continues to act like a crazy bittch.

    I'm looking for a new job, which is unfortunate because I love the 6 people in my office and what I do is easy and fun.  She is making my life miserable.  I learned all to well in my last job that being so miserable at work is bad for your health.  Life is too short to deal with this crap.

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  • And in an ironic twist of fate, I just got a call that I have an interview scheduled for this Thursday for practically my dream job (besides working from home).  Prayers are much needed!
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  • imagePlumCallaLily:
    And in an ironic twist of fate, I just got a call that I have an interview scheduled for this Thursday for practically my dream job (besides working from home).  Prayers are much needed!

    How exciting.  Many vibes on the way!
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  • imagePlumCallaLily:
    And in an ironic twist of fate, I just got a call that I have an interview scheduled for this Thursday for practically my dream job (besides working from home).  Prayers are much needed!

    Woot! Sending lots of luck and good vibes!!

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  • imagePlumCallaLily:
    And in an ironic twist of fate, I just got a call that I have an interview scheduled for this Thursday for practically my dream job (besides working from home).  Prayers are much needed!

    T&P are on the way! Good luck!

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  • Yay! I'm so excited you got an interview! Gooooood luck!

     If you hadn't said that I would have said I'm sorry you have to deal with a poop face and would have asked if you've tried talking to her, maybe she needs a friend? I'm thinking you've probably already have so then I was going to say, can you tell your boss who I'm assuming reports to the big boss that this woman is making it very hard to enjoy working there? If he feels worried he might lose you b/c of her maybe he can put pressure on her boss?

    We have someone exactly like that, everyone walks on egg shells and avoids having to get her to do things, her manager has sent her to training and we've had several discussions and she hasn't changed so I understand why you'd be frustrated. I just hate when one person makes several others leave.

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  • imageFutureMrsNAH:

    Yay! I'm so excited you got an interview! Gooooood luck!

     If you hadn't said that I would have said I'm sorry you have to deal with a poop face and would have asked if you've tried talking to her, maybe she needs a friend? I'm thinking you've probably already have so then I was going to say, can you tell your boss who I'm assuming reports to the big boss that this woman is making it very hard to enjoy working there? If he feels worried he might lose you b/c of her maybe he can put pressure on her boss?

    Yes, I've been there since the beginning showing her compassion, because I really do feel horribly for her - I can't imagine losing L.  Now, it's beyond that. She has nothing else except work in her life and it consumes everything she does.  She is constantly over-stepping her boundaries and micromanaging people.....she's not actually over anybody.  All of the other office coordinators are afraid of her because she has successfully lead the campaign to get two people fired.  I stand up to her and that's why she's making my life hell.

    Multiple department heads have gone to the big boss to express their concerns about her in relation to their employees and the big boss says he'll talk to her, which he clearly doesn't because nothing ever changes.  They are seriously running people off left and right.

    We have someone exactly like that, everyone walks on egg shells and avoids having to get her to do things, her manager has sent her to training and we've had several discussions and she hasn't changed so I understand why you'd be frustrated. I just hate when one person makes several others leave.

    TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker
  • Interview twinsies!!!  Though mine is on Wed.  But horray for the interview, and I really hope things do work out since it's your dream job!

     And hopefully it takes you far away from co-irker.

  • Hope things get better!
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