September 2010 Weddings
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Possibly TMI.....

Who else isn't having sex?? Seriously, it's been over a month, no joke. And I'm not talking about the last time I posted on the Sept.2010 board........
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Re: Possibly TMI.....

  • Hi Ferdy! We've missed you! You definetely should be coming around more...

    But enough of that. About the sex, H and I have been doing it on the regular, but there are definetely times that he wants it more than I do and vice versa. I am also feeling the baby fever so doing the dirty is supposed to equal making a baby... and that isn't happening right now, so my "wanting it" mood is lower than normal.

    Hope it gets better for ya soon Ferdy... seriously.

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  • I wish I was "coming around" more often myself ..... Ugh.What am I supposed to do with this fiery redhead sex drive?! I am defnitely dedicated to my husband...no question! It's just such a weird spot. I always read about this kind of situation but always was a like ...that wont Happen to me! And well here we are.By the way what the heck is up my sexy people?!
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  • imageFerdy2584:
    I wish I was "coming around" more often myself ..... Ugh.What am I supposed to do with this fiery redhead sex drive?! I am defnitely dedicated to my husband...no question! It's just such a weird spot. I always read about this kind of situation but always was a like ...that wont Happen to me! And well here we are.By the way what the heck is up my sexy people?!

    LMAO. 

    H and I haven't been having it as much as he'd like. I've got random medical issues interfering with my ability to get it on. My goal is twice a week, but we always have it at least once a week.

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  • I am in the same boat Ferdy.

    I think a lot of our issue is because we get home from work around 1 am. By the time we get home we are both completely exhausted from our day and in the mornings we have to get things done. I have never really had a decent sex drive so I don't mind it as much as DH.

  • We're having issues here too, but I think we're just having trouble finding our post-baby groove.  Before Baby Q, we were at 2 or 3x a week.  Now we're at once every 2 or 3 weeks.  It doesn't help that K is randy in the am's, when Baby Q is in bed with us.  Big turn off.

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  • Mid Juneish for me...Theres been alot of other crap going on with that tho....

    I lurves you! I tried emailizing you a couple weeks ago?? Anywho Im glad you're back and I've been missing you tons! Hope everything (minus sex) is doing well with you!!!

  • I think the TTTC is causing me to be less in the mood. Like a hopeless feeling has set in, if that makes any sense? Plus I am always tired and usually not feeling well, and my back has been hurting, so we haven't been bunnies lately either. I promised DH that as soon as the AC was fixed it would happen so guess what I'm doing this afternoon....definite TMI. lol. Love you Ferdy! You should probably just get Liv a sitter (or better yet, send her for a sleepover) and then jump his bones.
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    July 2012--50mg clomid+Ovidrel+TI--BFN, lining at 5mm
    August 2012--5mg femara+Ovidrel+TI
  • Ever since I have gotten pregnant we have been on a dry spell. In the beginning I felt like azz and now i just feel unsexy. Greg feels he is going to hurt the baby. Of course after his last conversation with his brother who's FI is also pregnant and due end of Sept. That it totally ruins the mood when you see the baby move. He may never have sex with me again.
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  • ::raises hand::  I'm a total night owl and he's a total morning person.  We're azz backwards on our schedules and it's taking a toll.  Not to mention up until last night it's been a billion and a half degrees in our house and who wants to make the effort when it's that hot??
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  • It's nice to know I'm not alone on this .....phew! I finds some solace on knowing you guys mostly are feeling where I'm at. Damn this just made me realize how much I missed you ladies!
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  • Then stick around a bit! 

    I was actually just thinking about you randomly yesterday and then you posted. :D  

  • Feeeerrrrdss!! We miss you so here!! I need spitfire redhead more often.

    For H and I, we definitely go through waves. Sometimes it's like bunnies in heat, other times it's dry spells. I don't think we've ever had a constant stream, but I think it's based on me. He would have it 24 hours a day if he could.

     

    How is everything with O and O? 

  • J definitely wants it way more than me but we go through our spells. It's been about 3 weeks (maybe 2.5??) for us but most of that is because of his surgery. I'll be glad when he's all healed up. :)

    You'll both get your groove back so no worries. Just a hurdle to get over and get back in the swing of things. 

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