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my h does the most annoying thing!
we've been together for 13 years and i don't think he always did this... so maybe he just decided to pick it up somewhere along the way.
anyway, he is a remind-aholic. for example, paolo's surgery was moved to tomorrow. so at 5 he says, "don't forget to pull up the food in an hour..." he says it in the sweetest way, but sometimes it's like jeesh, do you not trust me? and he does it with other things. like he'll hand me a pile of cash for the bills when i'm at my desk and if i don't grab it right away and put it in my purse he'll say, "now don't lose that..."
so tonight about paolo i said, "actually i don't pull up the food for 4 hours, not one, and by the way i'm not an infant!"
in case this reads awfully i should note we're actually laughing through all of this. it does bug me but i tell him every time and sometimes i think he does it on purpose cuz he knows i'll get all pissed off! 
Re: my h does the most annoying thing!
My H and I both do that to each other all the time too. We're both used to being "the responsible" one in our relationship so we forget the other one is actually capable of doing things.
At least he's reminding you instead of forgetting to do his own stuff, but yes, I can totally see how you get annoyed by it.
No, it just means he *thinks* he's the responsible one. Or your both the responsible one and you "out responsible" each other like us. LOL!