April 2010 Weddings
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Update on MIL

This past Saturday we had lunch together. She used the "I didn't say anything wrong" card and I used the "This will be that last of this" card and Poor DH used the " She is my wife and you need to repect her" card. At the end only time will tell if we would ever get along. Angry

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Re: Update on MIL

  • I can't believe that she tried to worm out of taking responsibility for what she said, especially since DH was there & heard her say it. Is she always this manipulative? Ugh, I don't envy you at all.

    The best thing to do is to kill her with kindness. It will show that you are above her BS but most importantly it will really piss her off.

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  • Wow!  Can she act like and an adult and like George-Anne said, take responsibility for her actions?  That's disturbing.  Hopefully it smooths out sooner rather than later!
    ~Melissa~
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  • Wow that's lame that she wouldn't own up to what she said! I'm sorry you and DH have to deal with her. I hope she comes around to realize what a jerk she was!
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  • I agree you being the bigger person is really important at this point so seriously be overly nice so she doesn't have any ground to stand on.
  • It's hard for people to own up to things, especially when they are wrong.  So in a way, you know she must feel a teeny bit guilty or at least more aware, right?  I agree with the others, just come out the good guy ALL THE TIME and she'll have nothing to say ever.  What a pain  Angry
  • Hoping she can come around eventually. . . in the mean time, make sure you are assertive but also nice around her.  Hang in there!
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  • I'm sorry she couldn't be an adult and own up to her actions and feeling! Fingers crossed she learned her lesson and treats you better from here on out! Hang in there!
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  • Coffee Good Morning Ladies, Hope you all have a wonderful day... Thanks for letting me vent.
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