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No sex drive...
Ok, here it goes. Help me out everyone -
I have zero sex drive. Zero. Every time I even try to think about sex, my mind goes elsewhere. I'm a newlywed, and I feel like something is wrong with our marriage - or me - because of this. I've never been able to "o" without aid from "tools" and my husband knows this and is ok with it. Am I just not a sexual person, or is something wrong with me?
Re: No sex drive...
If you haven't tried either, start. I guarantee you you'll be way psyched for sex after that.:)
Are you on any birth controls? They can reduces libido, I personally suffer from that. I also have never been able to without tools and likewise my FI is cool with this. We watch porn together to get ideas of things to try and sometimes to get one or the other excited, but there is no reason it has to be together. Would he be interested in incorperating tools into sex? My FI is still a little uncomfortable with this but he's come around to sharing the action with a tool if I'm really struggling. Sometimes just trying sex can help your desire. If FI or I hit a rut the other will ask for either sex or a sexual favor on occasion and eventully the rut ends. Perhaps you need more warm up? Sometimes my FI and I will tease each other and get the other looking forward to a treat that night all day.
You don't have to have complete satisfaction every time, most of the time I have sex I focus on enjoying the situation and giving my FI satisfaction and it's a lovely experience. Just last night FI requested an act and I wasn't in the mood but gave it a go and by the end I was really glad I had. In other words, keep trying, you'll figure something out that works for you.
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i have zero as well.. i mean once we get past the foreplay i enjoy it but just thinkin about it i have no desire... i have a thyroid problem which i have been told can mess around with that but who knows if that is what the problem is... also birth control can cause a drop in your libido .. you can talk to a doctor abou tit though