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She needs mil & legal help (C&P from SO)

Re: She needs mil & legal help (C&P from SO)

  • My goodness!
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  • OMG. That is absolutely terrible. 


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  • That is absolutely frightening! Sadly, because of their situation, I don't know what law enforcement can do--they don't have a custody agreement. The boy is with his father. What a helpless situation for the mom (and the boy, too, maybe). I would be a mess if this happened to me. I hope that she is able to get the support and help she needs.
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  • Dear God!  I'm side-eyeing the police.  There's no way in hell that this isn't kidnapping of some kind.
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  • I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.
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  • That's so sad... :( 
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  • imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    This is what I was thinking too. Starting at the Child Care Center on base.  

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  • Omg, that is awful. It must be so frustrating to feel like no one is helping you. I would be a mess.
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  • imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    Gah, I can't imagine what she's going through. I did think it was *maybe* mud because I think that was her first post?

    But, if it is real (and it may be) I can't imagine what she's going through. I have heard of some laws not allowing a parent to report the child missing under certain circumstances. But, I'm not a lawyer and for all I know that could have just been random rumors. You know how people mold the law to fit their situations when talking to people. KWIM?

     

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  • imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.
    Absolutely this!

     

  • imageblueshirt2003:

    imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    Gah, I can't imagine what she's going through. I did think it was *maybe* mud because I think that was her first post?

    But, if it is real (and it may be) I can't imagine what she's going through. I have heard of some laws not allowing a parent to report the child missing under certain circumstances. But, I'm not a lawyer and for all I know that could have just been random rumors. You know how people mold the law to fit their situations when talking to people. KWIM?

     

    Yup,I know what you mean and unfortunately I don't know more about any of the laws. I thought MUD at first but then her f/u posts seemed real.

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    imageblueshirt2003:

    imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    Gah, I can't imagine what she's going through. I did think it was *maybe* mud because I think that was her first post?

    But, if it is real (and it may be) I can't imagine what she's going through. I have heard of some laws not allowing a parent to report the child missing under certain circumstances. But, I'm not a lawyer and for all I know that could have just been random rumors. You know how people mold the law to fit their situations when talking to people. KWIM?

     

    Yup,I know what you mean and unfortunately I don't know more about any of the laws. I thought MUD at first but then her f/u posts seemed real.

    I hope someone is able to offer some advice and she can find out what to do.  

    I just saw she said she's using an AE, so yea, surely not mud.  

     

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  • If this were something that happened with me and DH, DH would hope he was dead when I was through with him.
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  • This made my stomach lurch.  I'm in CO, I wonder where he's stationed?  I'm at one base and within an hour of 4 others.  
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  • imageBrandienee85:

    imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    This is what I was thinking too. Starting at the Child Care Center on base.  

    And the chaplain, JAG, IG, and every single person on his chain of command.

    And I'd call CPS.



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  • I feel so bad for her and her poor baby!!  I cannot imagine.  I hope someone does something soon.
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  • imagehindsight's_a_biotch:
    imageBrandienee85:

    imageTwo*True:
    I'd be in CO knocking on every damn door until I found my child.

    This is what I was thinking too. Starting at the Child Care Center on base.  

    And the chaplain, JAG, IG, and every single person on his chain of command.

    And I'd call CPS.

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  • Oh no, I cannot even imagine.  I don't know what I'd do to the SOB once I hunted his azz down but it wouldn't be pretty.

    HAB hit the nail on the head.

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