Des Moines Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
flame question
I feel super dumb even asking this...but what, exactly, does it mean to 'flame' someone? Or what are the "rules" for a 'flame-free' string of posts?
Does it just include disagreements/arguments/rants/calling people out? Or is there something specific that makes it a "flame"?
I know -- I'm clueless. Thanks for bringing me up to speed! 
Re: flame question
Getting flamed or flaming someone means basically calling a person out or ripping them a new one on something they've said, done, etc. It's a bit petty since this is an online forum yet some people still do it. An example of a "flame-free confession" would be someone who's 7 months pregnant admitting they're still chain smoking, and no one is "allowed" to pass judgement, criticize, etc...