Omaha Nesties
melgul001
member
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
When would you tell?
2 previous miscarriages, I'll be 9 weeks tomorrow. I'd like to wait to tell friends, but my DH is anxious to tell our friends. Our immediate family (Parents, siblings, and a few select aunts/cousin knows). When would you tell?
Re: When would you tell?
whenever you are comfortable - If you want to tell someone now, just tell the people that you are closest too, that would be good support SHOULD something bad happen (God forbid) and that you would be comfortable talking to about it - and they would be good support for you.
Happily Married Since 11.29.02
Brayden Kenneth born 3.27.06
Blaire Kay born 7.10.10
Ditto Tiff. After my first mc (2nd trimester) and my second, we waited until 12 weeks when we were pregnant with Mara. With Jude, once I saw a heartbeat at my weekly appointments once or twice, we were fine with people we saw on a regular basis knowing. We didn't make it public knowledge til a bit later (besides work, since I was so sick, work knew pretty early) but we were sure to let the people know who we knew would support us should something bad happen.
Tell people when you are comfortable and who you know will support you through the pregnancy. It's whatever is right for you
We told our parents/siblings at 7w, but that was only because it was Christmas. Everyone else was 12 weeks. I wouldn't have wanted anyone to know had something happened.
You tell when you feel comfortable. Just remember that once you tell someone, it spreads pretty quick. People are so excited and can't keep a secret.