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One orgasm...ever
I have only had one orgasm during intercourse ever. I am 30 years old and married now, have never had one with my H. We have been trying to figure out a way for it to happen, but it just doesn't seem to be working. It makes sex sort of disappointing sometimes--trying hard for it to happen, and then it doesnt.
The only time it ever happened for me was with an old college boyfriend, have to admit, had quite a bit to drink that night--no inhibitions, and it happened.
I can easily make it happen on my own--not the type of girl that just "touching" works... need pretty intense stimulation, like rubbing against something. Havent tried a vibrator yet.
Anyone have vibrators or positions that work if you have had trouble with orgasm during intercourse? Would love for this to finally happen for my H and myself!
Re: One orgasm...ever
Vibrators help a lot - I can easily orgasm with vibrators, but need a lot more stimulation during sex.
We must be the opposite! I find it extremely difficult to orgasm when I've been drinking, haha.
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This. As well as sitting on his lap with my legs around him.
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I love this response. Totally agree on all counts--I can't imagine a dude wanting sex if he never climaxed. OP: get a vibrating bullet and experiment until you figure out what works for you. Also, BLPL made me think of this:
thank you for the tips! We are in the process of picking out a vibrator that will work for us. I've heard good things about Jimmy Jane, looking at the Form 3, has anyone tried it? Says its good to use during sex and for couples...kinda pricey though ($116)!
@ kellyt89, I have shown him what works but it seems impossible anatomically to make it work during sex--it seems a vibrator may be the solution. Oral sex is always great and we usually will start with that and it helps get things going, but i've never climaxed from that alone, I need more stimulation. I find that my orgasms, even when I'm on my own, require a lot of work!
I think i need to relax too--I've always been sort of shy when it comes to sex so sometimes I can't let go--anyone have any tips?
If all you need is clitoral stimulation to get you there, I think this will do the job (and it's only $20)
http://ww2.pureromance.com/PUBLICSTORE/product/Platinum-Pleaser,509,151.aspx
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THis is my wife's favorite position. She can orgasm very nicely from it. Only, we use the bed and I prop myself up with my arms behind me so I am sitting at a 45 deg angle from the waste up. This hits her g-spot and she can rub her clit on my pubic hair at the same time. It really sends her into orbit!!
Just relax and don't think about it. You are putting undue pressure on yourself. I know its easy for me to say but try to relax. Kiss and have a lot of foreplay. soo of either!
Have you ever tried oral sex? I can get my wife off buy rubbing her g-spot with my fingers while licking her clit at the same time. I use my free hand to hold her lips apart to expose her clit. Have DH gently lick your clit while her rubs your g-spot. You'll be in heaven when he gets it right!