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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Wwyd?
One of my former coworkers lost her granddaughter and the funeral is next week. This will make the 5th funeral this month I've gone to. Normally I would not hesitate to go but I'm exhausted. We have family in town that i have had zero time with and I really just want to stay home. But, I would feel bad not going to show my support. I'm so conflicted as to whether or not I should compromise the lack of family time or go to support my coworker. Thoughts? Am I being selfish?
Re: Wwyd?
Family comes first for me. How close are you with this co-worker? I'm sure that you can give your condolences to your co-worker in a card and they will be just as touched as if you were actually at the funeral.
Stay home. See your family.
ETA: For the record, it would only be selfish if you ignored both the co-worker AND your family.
Spend time with your family.
Send flowers to coworkers funeral.
Maybe make her a nice casserole as well to take by her house.
This.
Agreed. Chances are, she will be so overwhelmed that she probably wouldn't notice a former coworker's presence or absence. Send flowers and a card/gift later.
Once you hold the hand of love, it's all surmountable