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First anniversary gift ideas

So... I'm not regularly on this board and apologize for the random posting.  But, I thought you'd be the perfect people to ask.

Any ideas for a paper gift?  Our first anniversary is in a few weeks and I'm stumped.  I'm hoping that someone else here is in the same boat and has given it a bit more thought than I have.  Smile

A little bit about us -- we're in our late 20s/early 30s, are outdoor-sy, live in the PNW and are TTC.

TIA!

IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015

Re: First anniversary gift ideas

  • I didn't know you were supposed to do something with paper for your first wedding anniversary, but my suggestion would be a book--even if your husband doesn't read, what about a book on the pacific northwest or adventures you could go on up there?  Or a paper map (I know, hard to fathom with GPS these days) marked out with a route on it for a weekend getaway?  Or you could do a scavenger hunt with clues on paper to something more significant?

     Again, I am the wrong person to give advice.  Our gift is going to Florida for the week and we will be eating out at a nice dinner... 

  • Shauni has some great ideas.  A friend of mine did a first-edition of a novel her husband loved.  I have also heard of plane tickets, guidebooks for a trip, a photo album (some people use their boudoir pics for this), and concert tickets.  We probably won't stick with the traditional paper gift, though.
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  • yeah, i'm not following the traditional gift thing.  I like to give gifts that i know he wants/needs.  J's b-day is 2 weeks after our anni. so I'm combinging the 2 and giving him a camcorder which he has been asking for FOREVER.  With a little one on the way, the 2 have to be combined if he wants something good.  :-)
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  • My husband actually got this for me for the wedding, but it was a journal where you record each anniversary.  It covers the first 10 years, then every 5 years until 50th.  We plan to sit down with it on our anniversary and fill it out (it has questions like "best memory" and "how we celebrated this" type stuff)
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  • We are probably not following tradition, I'm not even sure if Greg would know that was what he was suppose to do.

    We might try and go away for the weekend. What I really want to do is go to Berns (fancy, famous steakhouse in our town) for dinner.

    We are more doing things with maybe a little gift then going all out on gifts.

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  • We're doing Disney - cruise for 3 days, land for 5, lay azzes in pool for 1 - dunzo.
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  • imageeMiLee920:
    My husband actually got this for me for the wedding, but it was a journal where you record each anniversary.  It covers the first 10 years, then every 5 years until 50th.  We plan to sit down with it on our anniversary and fill it out (it has questions like "best memory" and "how we celebrated this" type stuff)

    I love this idea. Can you give more details on this book? I haven't thought about a gift yet.

    We are going out of town for a business conference the weekend of our anniversary, but at least we'll be together!

    Me: 26 DH: 32
    TTC since 08/2010
    Anovulatory since at least 12/2010 (probably longer, unDx)
    Dx PCOS 3/2012
    SA 5/25/12--normal
    June 2012--50mg clomid+TI--BFN
    July 2012--50mg clomid+Ovidrel+TI--BFN, lining at 5mm
    August 2012--5mg femara+Ovidrel+TI
  • Dats - They actually updated the book, so it looks like it includes EVERY anniversary for 1-50.  I've got the older edition.  I do know at 1, 10, 25 and 50 (approx) they have spots for you to add a picture of the two of you.

    Here's the link: Uncommon Goods This is also my favorite site for gifts!

    My deal is that I am going to murder your puppies and piss on your rainbows. -diablesse Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • Thank you all!  These are great ideas... I appreciate it!
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

  • I didn't realize this was "paper" either...I really like the book idea, but DH and I are both big readers. I don't know if you're artistic at all, but maybe you could write a poem (and design/decorate the page)? I'm also going against the paper - DH really wants this Route 66 DadGear diaper bag :)
  • We're closing on our house right before our 1 year anniversary (so obviously we'll be pretty much broke- ha!). I'd say the deed to a house is a pretty decent paper gift to each other. 

    I also wrote him a letter the night of our wedding that I'm going to give him. 

     Other ideas: Scrapbook, tickets of any kind, pretty much anything can be made into a gift certificate, boudoir photos. You could get a book that has something to do with a different gift (like a book about traveling to Mexico with -you guessed it- a trip to Mexico, or a book about grilling with a grill set or something) 

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