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New! And have a question...

Hi All! I am new to the nest so I thought I would introduce myself. I am a 2nd grade teacher and this is my first year teaching. I am getting a little nervous for work but really thankful to have a job. 

A few worries that I have had on my mind lately:

-How will my working schedule match up with DH? (I have been staying at home all summer) 

-Will I be able to handle the stress of having a full time job...

-Being a first year teacher, will my coworkers accept me?

 Anyone else going through the same thing, also anyone out there a teacher that can give me some stress relieving tips :)   

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Re: New! And have a question...

  • imageTeacherEllen81710:

    -Will I be able to handle the stress of having a full time job...

    I'm not a teacher, but I think I can *hopefully* answer this.  I assume you're just out of college.

    My first full time job out of college was a little intimidating as well.  I was worried about the same thing.  BUT, you have to remember that you don't have homework, you don't have tests, you don't have stressful projects to worry about, or 10-page papers looming in your mind.  Typically, you'll be at work from 7-4, I'm guessing, and have your evenings to yourself (of course there will be nights that you bring work home).  It is different than college for sure, but I don't think it'll be as stressful as you think.

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  • Yes I am right out of college :) I am looking forward to not having to study or do schoolwork once I am off work...for a while anyways. I start my Masters Degree online  in the spring, so that will throw a whole new thing into the mix.
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  • I'm also a first year teaching who will be teaching 2nd grade. I was SO excited when offered the position, but then the reality set it and I've been a nervous wreck ever since. lol.

    I never student taught because I'm in a university partnership program, so my first year teaching is essentially my student teaching. Yikes! I have lots of experience subbing and volunteering in summer school, but I'm still a nervous wreck. I'm also nervous about balancing grad school and work. I've worked full-time before (I'm a career changer), but I know teacher if very different from other positions. So I'm also nervous about that!

    I just have to remind myself that many others have done this before, and I (and you) can too!

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  • Yay! I am so glad someone is experiencing the same thing. That would be tough to go straight into teaching and not be able to student teach first. I like how you mentioned that many have done it before us, that does settle my stomach a little. I just want to enjoy my job and not end up being one of those burned out teachers that everyone hates. When do you start school? I start in September so still a month or so to prepare :)
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  • imageTeacherEllen81710:

    -How will my working schedule match up with DH? My DH works retail doing inventory control/loss management, and he closes often, so we have opposite schedules most of the time. We just plan ahead and make the most of the time we both have together.

    I try to keep school stuff at school so I can be a normal human being at home. I am extremely diligent about doing grading/planning during my plan time and the time I am required to be at school when I'm not teaching. Do I stay late? Absolutely. But I try to swing that so that I'm staying late when my husband is working evenings.

    -Will I be able to handle the stress of having a full time job... I fell into a routine quickly, and that helped. Use all the resources you have available - mentor teacher, university contacts.

    -Being a first year teacher, will my coworkers accept me? As a first year teacher, I worked hard and did my job. That earned the respect of the administration and my coworkers. I avoided gossip, I attended extra-curricular events, and I learned about the culture of the school. I learned everyone's names as soon as possible and said hello. Even though I was fresh out of college and had tons of ideas, I shared them without being a know-it-all. I understood these teachers had experience, and I had lots to learn from them as well. I was voted Teacher of the Year my second year teaching by my coworkers because I focused on my students and doing my job well.

    The best advice I can give you is to focus on those students in your classroom and bust your butt to do your job well. Be a professional. The rest will fall into place.

    I seriously keep a folder called "Warm Fuzzies" and I drop student notes, cards, etc. in there. I review them when I have a crappy day. It helps.

    Don't be concerned with making friends with coworkers right away. Be polite and friendly, but don't push friendships. I developed close bonds with many people at school, but it honestly didn't happen until my second year. 

    It's cliche, but get to know the janitors and secretaries by name and always be kind to these people. The secretaries I work will are always willing to help me out. They aren't so accommodating to some of my coworkers who treat them like servants.

    Be ready to roll with the punches. Last year, we had one day janitor and no night janitors (we're a larger school). We had to clean our own rooms. B*tching about it accomplished nothing, and the principals really couldn't do anything about it. I also volunteered to give up my second planning period to offer another class to relieve large class sizes. The principals and counselors never forgot that.

    This is true of any job: Don't complain without offering a solution. If I had an issue, I always called to schedule a time to talk about it, and brought a solution or two.

    I worked to be professional. I wasn't a kiss@ss, but I was polite. I was there 110% for my students. I'm a highly respected teacher, but I earned that respect.

    Best of luck to you!

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  • Great Advice. You sound like a Superteacher!! I am really excited about my career in teaching and I know it is going to be a lot of work. It is good to hear that all the hard work pays off. Thanks again for all the tips, they are much appreciated!

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  • Ditto to PP on making friends with secretaries and janitors!!!

    Last year was my first year teaching (just moved from FL to TX so unfortunately I am now looking again!) and it was a lot of work but nothing too scary!  Our school had new teachers pair up with existing teachers for mentoring, which was wonderful ... maybe your school has something similar?  It was very helpful to have someone to ask questions about how I should go about doing this or that.

    Good luck this year :-)!!

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