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I have a lunch date on Friday....
and I don't know what to wear. I met a guy through eHarmony, and this one has not asked me about my underwear or sex in any capacity!!! This is a huge plus since all the others so far have, and I've never met any of them. After they bring up underwear or sex, I stop contact. I feel like these are things you talk about after you actually meet someone, and you get to know them face to face.
He seems to be a really nice guy. Not to mentions he's really smart. Usually on Fridays I wear jeans or jean capris, because it's casual Fridays at work. I don't want to dress up too much, because it would give away to my co-workers that something was going on. Should I just wear my jeans and a nice blouse, or should I wear something nicer? I really hate dating again. This really sucks!
Re: I have a lunch date on Friday....
any idea where you are going? I think jeans would normally be fine, but if you do want to dress up could you pretend you have to do something related to your new job (lunch with a new boss?)?
good for you going out. The first date is always interesting, either good or bad enough for an entertaining story!
He has the day off, so he said he would meet me close to my office. I'm not really a big a fan of most of the places that he suggested that are near my office, so when he suggested Ninfa's I agreed. At least it's a short first date. The last was a little too long, and he again made me uncomfortable with the sex talk. I'm not a prude, I just don't think it's a first date subject. Filling out the application to eHarmony was like filling out application to the state department, if all someone wants is sex there are plenty of other sites to find someone.
Thank you for the suggestion! I think I will wear my jeans and a cute top, I'm going after work to buy some new cute shoes. My current shoe shoes are pretty beat up, and I need some new ones. Last month I finally, finally started fitting into my smallest clothes that I have been saving, including all of my smaller jeans! I started Weight Watchers in February, and finally hit my goal weight. I'm pretty excited about wearing smaller jeans on Friday!
Congrats! Have fun and hope Friday goes well.