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What to expect??

So my husband graduated BMT last weekend now he's at Tech School. Now he says that he may or may not get to start classes on time and so on and so on. So what else should I expect for the next year or so.

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Re: What to expect??

  • Expect more uncertainty and changes.
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  • The sooner you understand that nothing is ever written in stone with the military, the better.  For example, that trip you have in your sig?  May or may not happen.  
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  • imageJillyWtP:
    Expect more uncertainty and changes.

    Ditto X 50 million

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  • imagednbeach12:
    The sooner you understand that nothing is ever written in stone with the military, the better.  For example, that trip you have in your sig?  May or may not happen.  

    O yes. I am definitely beginning to realize that.

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  • Go in without expectations and your stress levels will go waaaay down. Classes get put on hold, people get transferred, things that were definites become maybes, 2 weeks becomes 2 months.... Just take things on a day to day basis.
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  • In addition to what the previous posters have said (expect the unexpected), I would recommend familiarizing yourself with military jargon and structure, if you haven't already.  It might make things a bit easier as you navigate this new lifestyle.

    Otherwise, enjoy this new adventure!

  • Don't go in with any expectations. If they tell your H anything don't even half trust it unless it is in writing and even then only half trust it. Good luck!
  • I recommend reading "Married to the Military" by Meredith Leyva. This book has helped with Jargon, knowing what to expect, if there is an issue it tells you how to handle it. This book was very helpful to me. My H hasn't left for BMT yet (next month!) but I feel more comfortable "sort of" knowing what to expect in the future.

    I would also join some facebook pages. The Air Force page and maybe AF Wing Moms. You can ask questions there and they are very helpful. 

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  • imageJillyWtP:
    Expect more uncertainty and changes.

    Nail on head.

    My DH isn't in training anymore, but still when I get asked how long I expect to be in my current location I avoid answering. The Navy loves to change things up so I just go with the flow until I see orders, and even then, orders can change.

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  • imageJillyWtP:
    Expect more uncertainty and changes.

     

    Pretty much. "Go with the flow" needs to become your new motto and way of life.

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