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Hi my name is Cindy and I have a problem

I'm new to message boards. I usually just stick to email and videos on my computer. I have a blog though. It makes me sad because nobody follows it. I know I'm supposed to use keywords and things to make people want to come and read what I've written but I don't know how to do that. So only my family reads it and I really don't want to put this problem out there. I just don't think it is anything my family needs to know. So I used to have a wedding planning page on The Knot. I would have kept my sign in name for here, but when I made it I wanted it to be easy to find and so I used my first and last name. I know enough now to know that isn't a good idea.

 I've been married for three years now. Just pretend I threw confetti here. Married life has been good to me. My husband hasn't really been himself lately, though. He's being distant. I can work with that. That isn't the problem. We have a healthy sexual life. We probably have sex about seven times in a fortnight. We use paper towels to clean up after ourselves because while we aren't trying to have a child we aren't not trying either, if that makes sense. We each use two paper towels to clean our selves up so in a month we generate about 28 paper towels after making love. They are of course discarded in the waste basket next to our bed.

The other day I was gathering together the garbage for garbage day when I noticed that there seemed to be more than the usual amount of paper towels in the bin. So I checked and there were 37 instead of the usual 28. I'm not sure what to make of this at all. I've been ruminating about it ever sense. I know I should confront him, but I don't know how.

Re: Hi my name is Cindy and I have a problem

  • So he's flogging the ole dong?

    Masturbation is healthy. Don't you do it?

    Confront him with nothing.

  • 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5

    It is my job to sexually gratify him. By masturbating, if  that really is what he is doing, he is allowing for the possibility of straying one day.

  • Can I call MUD? 


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  • I think you should write about it on your blog. That will get you some hits.
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  • imagemiluv2him:

    1 Thessalonians 4:3-5

    It is my job to sexually gratify him. By masturbating, if  that really is what he is doing, he is allowing for the possibility of straying one day.

    I love comic relief...and primitive beliefs.

  • Smock, is that you? 
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  • This reminds me of Ladybug and "A lot of many napkins"

     Anyone?

  • imageSpitfire2008:

    This reminds me of Ladybug and "A lot of many napkins"

     Anyone?

    I LOLed at this. 

  • I can't believe no one has yet posted about the counting of the paper towels.
  • imageKellyOnMyOwn:
    I can't believe no one has yet posted about the counting of the paper towels.

    I had to read that part to my husband! It's so much easier to pee and hop in the shower, and then cuddle. Maybe we're the odd ones:/

  • I immediately thought of Napkin Lady too!
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  • imageSpitfire2008:

    This reminds me of Ladybug and "A lot of many napkins"

     Anyone?

    Me too...that's why I figured it must be a TIP reg that was bored.

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  • I can't take this post seriously at all. 37 vs. 28 tissues...I just...can't. lmao
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  • use regular towels.

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  • you only empty your garbage once a month??
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  • Clearly he is having an affair and that b!tch only uses one paper towel each time.  She must be a crazy environmentalist to boot!  They have had sex three times this month!  You should install surveillance to catch them in the act.
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  • I think you are being a little extreme with the paper towel counting. But I understand how you feel about masturbating I am a Christian also. I don't however think there is anything wrong with masturbating biblically as long as he is only thinking about you his wife or if you are doing it together then it is ok. You need to talk to him  it is better to just talk then to keep it inside and get angry. Just ask him straight up if he has been doing it and if so what you can do to make his sex life better ect. And talk about his thoughts while doing it and if they are about you or other women. This is not a major issue and can be dealt with through communication. =]
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  • My thoughts exactly!
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