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Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

*Strug hugs*

Hoping your dreaded meeting went better than expected and that you had a good weekend. Hugs!

 

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  • Yes!

    I was thinking about you too!  I hope everything worked out!

  • I was thinking about you, too, my dear "daughter" - and MrsPhilDunphy (damn - I had to think for a minute about your new name!), how was yours?

    Pam and John
    "What is a week-end?"
  • imagePam&John:

    I was thinking about you, too, my dear "daughter" - and MrsPhilDunphy (damn - I had to think for a minute about your new name!), how was yours?

    I'll fill you in tonight. It's not the ideal position it was made out to be, but still okay. 

    Strug - I hope this week goes well for you! 

  • i'm here. it was bad and i am actively looking for work. i am still employed and made very clear i am never, never to be spoken to a certain way again. to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     um...no you don't. you can speak to me like an adult. more details later.

  • i just came on and saw this. i am so so sorry. i have two bosses currently. and one is a TOTAL jack a$& and he yells a lot. he's just mean in general. i've found that if i yell back it gained his respect. not yelling back persay but not backing down to him. he's an alpha male and HAS to show he's top dog but he likes when people go toe to toe with him.

    luckily i have my other boss to offset him. i am REALLY sorry your going through this but i can say that i know how you feel. i wish i could offer you some sort of solid advice. but i can't. but i can say i can empathize.

    go home and have a LARGE drink. and a LARGE one for me too since i can't for a few more months.

  • imageMrsSstrug:

     to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     

    Good Lord! This sounds like something from a training video on how NOT to manage people. Onwards and upwards, my friend.

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  • imageDCtoLowcountry:
    imageMrsSstrug:

     to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     

    Good Lord! This sounds like something from a training video on how NOT to manage people. Onwards and upwards, my friend.

    i had to use the phrase "can you please listen to what you just said" several times. obviously there are alot of detais left off here but it is just ridiculous. i hate going home at night feeling like a failure.

  • I'm so sorry the meeting didn't go well and your boss is an a-hole. :(
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  • Failure for your boss to act like a grown-up does not equal Strug failure. Oh hell to the no. I hope you document every word that nimrod says and send him up HR creek.
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  • imageDCtoLowcountry:
    Failure for your boss to act like a grown-up does not equal Strug failure. Oh hell to the no. I hope you document every word that nimrod says and send him up HR creek.

    DITTO! 

    the lack of professionalism allowed never ceases to amaze me. and clearly, he's been permitted to behave like an @sshat for too long already. he's the one failing in this situation.  

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  • imageMrsSstrug:

    to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     

    Surprise EFF that! Good luck in your job hunt. No one deserves to be YELLED at work. I wouldn't be talking to him again without HR present.

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  • Big hugs. Hope your hunt is fruitful!
  • Sounds like a nightmare.  I hope you find a better situation soon.
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  • imageclaraj:
    imageMrsSstrug:

    to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     

    Surprise EFF that! Good luck in your job hunt. No one deserves to be YELLED at work. I wouldn't be talking to him again without HR present.

    this is spot-on. i already talked to HR once and will be following up.

  • imageMrsSstrug:
    imageclaraj:
    imageMrsSstrug:

    to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     

    Surprise EFF that! Good luck in your job hunt. No one deserves to be YELLED at work. I wouldn't be talking to him again without HR present.

    this is spot-on. i already talked to HR once and will be following up.

    this. and if I knew how to double quote, I'd echo DCtoLow's comment, too.

    and if you want me to, I can make an inquiry on your behalf at my ex's place of employment....

    Boss's failure to be a human being is NOT Strug failure. If he has a problem with the way you do your job -- is this new? - that's a different issue -- not one that is resolved by yelling at you, under any circumstances. (and I'm sorry....)

    Pam and John
    "What is a week-end?"
  • I am sorry :( I hope you find just the right thing.
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  • well that is horsesh!t. i'm sorry it didn't go well. :( your boss is an a-hole and you should be somewhere where you are treated with respect. good luck with the search!

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  • Ugh. I'm so, so sorry. Here's hoping you get some good luck in the job search (or make headway with HR).... if you are around this Friday, let me know if you want to hit up some drinks at lunch... or just lunch. What an a-hole. I wonder if you are the first person to stand up to him?
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  • imageMrsSstrug:

    i'm here. it was bad and i am actively looking for work. i am still employed and made very clear i am never, never to be spoken to a certain way again. to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     um...no you don't. you can speak to me like an adult. more details later.

    Oh wow, that sucks.  So unprofessional.  Good for you for setting your boundaries. I hope you find something new quickly!  Hang in there. 

  • imageMrsSstrug:

    i'm here. it was bad and i am actively looking for work. i am still employed and made very clear i am never, never to be spoken to a certain way again. to which the response was "sometimes i have to yell to get my point across."

     um...no you don't. you can speak to me like an adult. more details later.

    Oh wow, that sucks.  So unprofessional.  Good for you for setting your boundaries. I hope you find something new quickly!  Hang in there. 

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