D.C. Area Nesties
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

**kiahj**

you can't just hide that information in ten words, sistah! he's back -- how do you feel about this? things are better, I presume?

Pam and John
"What is a week-end?"

Re: **kiahj**

  • **butting in**

    ditto pam! hope this only means good things for you guys 

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  • i know, right?  i pretty much just found out about it myself... though i did have a feeling that it was in the works.  i'm very happy.  we've been working really hard in and out of counseling, he's working through a lot of stuff on his own as well and it feels like things have taken a nice turn and gotten back on track - though i know that we have a lot of work ahead of us.  he's easing me back into his arrival, however, as he is leaving tomorrow for a two week work trip.  baby steps, i guess Big Smile

    thanks for the kind words and support... you guys are awesome.

  • That's great to hear!  I'm excited for you guys that you're working through it and accomplishing so much.
    White Knot
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  • I also wanted to butt in and say that this is good news. I wish you both all the best.
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  • so glad to hear that :) 
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  • Glad to hear that doing the hard work is paying off. I just read this article about trial separations this morning.
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  • imageDCtoLowcountry:
    Glad to hear that doing the hard work is paying off. I just read this article about trial separations this morning.

    Interesting article - thanks for sharing it..

    And thanks for all the kind thoughts everyone.  This counseling thing has been such an incredibly eye opening experience for both of us.  It is astonishing what totally different pages we were on, how poor our communication skills were (are still - one of the biggies that we are working on) and how many things about myself that I have been able to recognize that I don't like about myself that need to be addressed as well.  Like I said, it's going to be a very long process, but we're both more or less on the same page and committed to the process of trying to make it work.  Fingers crossed!

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    imageDCtoLowcountry:
    Glad to hear that doing the hard work is paying off. I just read this article about trial separations this morning.

    Interesting article - thanks for sharing it..

    And thanks for all the kind thoughts everyone.  This counseling thing has been such an incredibly eye opening experience for both of us.  It is astonishing what totally different pages we were on, how poor our communication skills were (are still - one of the biggies that we are working on) and how many things about myself that I have been able to recognize that I don't like about myself that need to be addressed as well.  Like I said, it's going to be a very long process, but we're both more or less on the same page and committed to the process of trying to make it work.  Fingers crossed!

    VERY proud of you -- that's an incredibly mature and thoughtful response. Admitting one's own "faults" is so very hard, yet the first necessary step to making any relationship you're in, work. Good for you, and him, and I wish you only the best. (hugs)

    Pam and John
    "What is a week-end?"
  • thanks Pam!!

    xo 

  • Sounds like you're both working hard and making progress!  I hope things only get better with time :)
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