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How do you handle your frustration?

Do you eat?  Drink your problems away?  Exercise?  When you're in a bad mood, how do you make yourself feel better?

Last night was a crap-tastic night which sucked bc I had such a good day, but I ended up getting so frustrated and upset that I literally didn't know what to do with myself. Typically I'd run to food, it's my BFF lol but with trying to diet that isn't an option.  So when I went to take the trash out, I just kept walking.  I dropped it off in the bin, and then just walked until I felt better.  I had on black capris, a big oversized green nightshirt, flip flops, and wet hair bc I had just showered, and I just started walking at 9:30pm.  Didn't take a cell phone with me, didn't tell Jason I was leaving, nothing.  I walked for about 30 minutes and did a circle to end back at our apartment, but I felt so much better.  I think I just needed to take some time to myself, get out of our apartment, and clear my head and then I felt somewhat better.  I think I'm going to start walking every night now, it made such a difference.

So what do you do to relieve frustration/stress?

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Re: How do you handle your frustration?

  • When I was in much better shape, I used to run it off.

    If I'm at work, I'll take a break, walk out for a coffee, etc.  At home, I probably reach for food most often.  It's my bff too.

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  • When someone makes me mad at work I go take a walk (considered my break of course.) I did this yesterday. Stupid coworker! Then at home when h makes me super super pissed I will take that dog and go on a walk like you did Xan. Just walk it off. Also I have come to really like music when I'm mad. It calms me down but usually I don't think of it when I'm upset.  
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  • Loud music on a drive is what always helps.  I use phone a friend too.  Once I had started WW I too had to veer away from food being the solution for me.  I still have boughts though where food is what cuts it! 
  • At work I'll try and just get up and leave my desk for a few minutes...either go outside or grab a drink.

    At home, if I'm really upset or mad, I tend to shut down and I'll just force myself to sleep.

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  • Unfortunately I eat.  If I am at work whatever candy I have in my desk has no chance.  If I don't have candy available a soda seems to help too.
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    At home, if I'm really upset or mad, I tend to shut down and I'll just force myself to sleep.

    Yeah, if I get upset at home, I just want to go lay in bed.


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  • I will usually cry.  It's terrible but a good cry makes me feel so much better.  And maybe some ice cream.

    And that's great that walking helps you!  I wish I was one of those people who took their frustrations out on the gym...I'm just not!

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  • If I am at work, I usually step outside to get some air and/or call someone if it's really frustrating. 

     At home, I generally go exercise and bit more than I normally do.

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  • If I'm at home, I usually go lie down in bed and have a snooze. If I'm in public, I'll go for a walk out in the woods or something.  If I'm really upset, I call my cousin in BC and write in my journal.
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