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Kids and Christmas

Peyton will only be 3 months old at christmas and I know even though she will have no clue about it she still needs some gifts.

For the ladies who had a little one at Christmas what kind of gift did you get your little one? I need to look around but thought maybe I ask to see if there is something cool out there that your child liked at 3 months.

She will have a stocking this year and I will put some books in there and some little teethers and things.

 

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Re: Kids and Christmas

  • Lucie was a similar age to Peyton will be last year. We got her a stocking with teething rings, books etc. Then we got her Sophie the Giraffe, Violet the dog and a few other books.
  • Chase was 4 1/2 months at Christmas.  John and I didn't get him anything, partly b/c money was tight and partly b/c there was nothing he needed.  Our families said they weren't going to get him much, but they all did.
    This year  we will get him some clothes and toys.  It will be fun watching him open the gifts.  I want to get him a wagon, but I would rather get that as a birthday gift so we can use it this fall.
  • Bug was a little over 5 months his 1st Christmas and we didn't do much.  He got a stocking with little things he needed.  I made a big fuss wrapping up a box of diapers, lol.  He needed new clothes so we timed that and wrapped them.  But money was tight for us as well, and he got lots of stuff in the mail from family so the tree looked plentiful.  Lane will be 4 months old, so the same thing will apply.  Just a few little things, but nothing crazy.  We just do what we can and make the best of it.  I try not to ever go crazy with presents anyway, because I want my kids to grow up and appreciate, not expect.  I have seen what too many presents has done to my step daughter and it sickens me that she actually thinks she is entitled to EVERYTHING that she wants.
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    Bug was a little over 5 months his 1st Christmas and we didn't do much.  He got a stocking with little things he needed.  I made a big fuss wrapping up a box of diapers, lol.  He needed new clothes so we timed that and wrapped them.  But money was tight for us as well, and he got lots of stuff in the mail from family so the tree looked plentiful.  Lane will be 4 months old, so the same thing will apply.  Just a few little things, but nothing crazy.  We just do what we can and make the best of it.  I try not to ever go crazy with presents anyway, because I want my kids to grow up and appreciate, not expect.  I have seen what too many presents has done to my step daughter and it sickens me that she actually thinks she is entitled to EVERYTHING that she wants.

    I agree. We are not going to go overboard with gifts this year or anytime because I want my child to appreciate what she gets and not expect it. Like you I have seen kids who think they are entitled to everything and it never turns out well.

    We will probably do one toy that is age appropriate and a few little things.

     

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  • I have a different feeling about christmas, I feel like that is the one time that you can really spoil your kids. That is the one thing that my mother did and I did not expect things the rest of the year. I think you can have both things - a spoiled kid a christmas and a kid that knows that it is a special time and not to expect year round. 

    With that being said, Em was older and we got her a few different things. But I agree with the pp about Violet the dog. She loved that, even at an early age.

     

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    I have a different feeling about christmas, I feel like that is the one time that you can really spoil your kids. That is the one thing that my mother did and I did not expect things the rest of the year. I think you can have both things - a spoiled kid a christmas and a kid that knows that it is a special time and not to expect year round.

     

    Ditto this.

    Have you thought about getting her something sentimental to mark her first Christmas?

    I have read where some people buy their child a ornament every year (or make one) and when the day comes for their first married Christmas, they have a tree full of ornaments.

    My first christmas gift from my parents was a wooden rocking horse.  Funny enough DH got the EXACT same one when he was a baby :) 

  • Lincoln was only 6 weeks at his first Christmas. We got him some custom cloth blocks with horse fabric on them and a few books. Santa brought him some pajamas, pacifiers, and a few other things.

    Last year we got him books, some toy trucks, a barn toy, and something else I don't remember now. Santa brought him more books, bananas (The biggest hit! lol), and a few small toys.

    With Lincoln's birthday, Christmas, and Stanton's birthday all so close, they will probably each get one big gift for their birthdays and a big gift to share for  Christmas and some small gifts. My mom goes overboard at Christmas, so I try to keep it simple at our house. Not to mention, we're usually broke with so many birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries between November and January.

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    imagemelimelg:

    I have a different feeling about christmas, I feel like that is the one time that you can really spoil your kids. That is the one thing that my mother did and I did not expect things the rest of the year. I think you can have both things - a spoiled kid a christmas and a kid that knows that it is a special time and not to expect year round.

     

    Ditto this.

    Have you thought about getting her something sentimental to mark her first Christmas?

    I have read where some people buy their child a ornament every year (or make one) and when the day comes for their first married Christmas, they have a tree full of ornaments.

    My first christmas gift from my parents was a wooden rocking horse.  Funny enough DH got the EXACT same one when he was a baby :) 

    I do the yearly ornaments!  My parents always did that for me, and it is such a special thing now that they are gone for me to put them on the tree each year.  Makes me feel like they are close by at the holidays.

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  • Thanks ladies. You all have given me some great ideas. I love the yearly ornaments.

    The 4 boys I babysit a lot and consider my kids their parents get them all matching pj's that they wear christmas morning and I think that is special too and something they look forward to every year (well until they become teenagers maybe Smile )

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    Thanks ladies. You all have given me some great ideas. I love the yearly ornaments.

    The 4 boys I babysit a lot and consider my kids their parents get them all matching pj's that they wear christmas morning and I think that is special too and something they look forward to every year (well until they become teenagers maybe Smile )

    My mom did the pj thing also. It was the only gift that we could open christmas eve. And trust me, even as teenagers, we liked getting the pjs!  

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  • I agree about Violet the Dog. James has Scout (it's the boy version) and I love it. He just stares at it right now. His other favorite thing is Mortimer the Moose (a Lamaze toy). At 3 months, James wasn't really into toys at all. He's 4 1/2 months now and just started grabbing/looking at toys. I would say just see what you still need after she is born and then buy Christmas presents accordingly. It could even be stuff for you (breast pads and stuff like that). Just stuff to fill her stocking. But I wouldn't go overboard with toys at that age.
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  • I just thought I'd mention that I was two months old at my first Christmas, and I still have the gift my grandma gave me...a stuffed teddy bear named Buffy.  I slept with him every night until...well, high school.  Maybe even college.  Stick out tongue  He had a little wind-up thing and would play "Rockabye Baby."  I cried when the music stopped working (when I was, like, 12).

    So just because your infant is too young to really appreciate something now doesn't mean that they won't treasure it in the future!

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