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What gets you in the mood?
Okay, I am new to sex, like, I have only been doing it for the past two months that I have been married. I am still trying to figure out what ambiances get me in the mood and I have come to find out that candles REALLY do set the mood. Music before and during sex is great as well. There is one song by Usher called "Trading Places"- this is seriously one of the sexiest songs I have eeeever heard, and watching that video is equally amazing. Look it up on YouTube, you will understand haha.
I am starting to figure out the things that get me in the mood, candle light and the right music helps. If you have other suggestions that help get you in the mood (please do not talk to me about porn as I find it disgusting/degrading/disrespectful/pathetic/harmful/beastly/I could go on forever) please share!
Thanks guys!
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Re: What gets you in the mood?
If you're into it - sexy pictures throughout the day (just make sure not to put your face in the picture if you're sending it in a text)
Definitely massages, that's one of my favorite.
taking a shower together
rubbing massage oil on each once we get out
light candles and have some sexy, mellow music on
cuddling in bed while listening to some music
kissing, smooching on the couch while music is playing ( I really like music that is sexy, sensual ---like Sade or Lenny Kravitz Let love rule, Buffalo 66 soudtrack, Also,
http://www.amazon.com/Supreme-Beings-Leisure/dp/B00004NRXT this is supreme beings of leisure very sensual music, Bebel Gilberto Tanto Tempo
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For me, I never got the candles thing. I see them as a fire hazard instead!! I would keep checking them to be sure nothing is catching fire. MAybe its a guy thing.
Wearing sexy lingerie all day. Wear only the lingerie if you can. Have him leave little sexy notes that say what he likes sexually. Have him do the same for you.
Wine, exhibitionism, spontaneous french kisses with lots of tongue, talking sexy/dirty while NOT in the bedroom.
As a guy, the old adage is true, "guys get excited when the wind blows up their pants leg!" Anything gets us horny. I know that doesn't help you out. Try thinking sexy thoughts all day. Think about what he does to you sexually that gets you going.
Smile a lot. It'll help keep you and everyone else around you happy!
I hear ya about porn, that would make me so turned off.
Candles turn me on too. I really get excited when I'm wearing something sexy because I know he'll like it.