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I had a dr appointment this morning to make a decision regarding the
miscarriage. We initially had chose to do the pills but now the doctor
just contacted me to change the plan. While I was there she wanted to
check one more beta to see if they started falling yet, nope mine rose. I
am more confident that it is over. The gestational sac got smaller
rather than larger since last week.
D and C is scheduled for tomorrow..
~Cheryl and Frank~ 06/28/08
TTC since Sept 2009, 2 uterine septum surgeries (Jan and March 2011), 1 chemical pregnancy (4/11), 1 ectopic pregnancy (8/11), and missed m/c at 11w5d (3/12) Failed IVF #1 (July 2012) FET #1 October/November 2012 BFP, m/c at 5 3/7 February - operative hysteroscopy
Late April/May FET #2
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Re: D and C tomorrow
I'm sorry that this didn't turn out the way you wanted, Cheryl. I think the fact that the sac has gotten smaller is a good indication that you are doing the right thing with the D&C.
I'll be thinking about you tomorrow
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Cheryl, I am so sorry. There is nothing else I can say right now. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me on facebook.
For me the D&C was pretty painless and the next couple of days were just like a bad period. The physical part doesn't take away the emotional pain though.
I initially found the miscarriage board on the bump very helpful, but then too many angry gals started, regardless, I recommend finding some support there, or even just lurking helped me.
I wish I could take this pain away. I wish I could make you have a baby that kept growing. I wish we didn't have to go through this. I'm about 4.5 weeks out from my D&C so it's still very fresh in my mind, please do not hesitate to seek support.
Thinking of you today, Cheryl
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Clomid/Femara no "O"
IVF #1 BFN
FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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