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D and C tomorrow

I had a dr appointment this morning to make a decision regarding the miscarriage. We initially had chose to do the pills but now the doctor just contacted me to change the plan. While I was there she wanted to check one more beta to see if they started falling yet, nope mine rose. I am more confident that it is over. The gestational sac got smaller rather than larger since last week.

D and C is scheduled for tomorrow..  Crying
~Cheryl and Frank~ 06/28/08
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Re: D and C tomorrow

  • imagenursecheryl81:

     The gestational sac got smaller rather than larger since last week.

    D and C is scheduled for tomorrow..  Crying

    I'm sorry that this didn't turn out the way you wanted, Cheryl. I think the fact that the sac has gotten smaller is a good indication that you are doing the right thing with the D&C.

    I'll be thinking about you tomorrow Left Hug

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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope that you heal quickly (physically and emotionally).
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  • Very sorry to hear this, Cheryl.
  • ((hugs))  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!
  • So, so sorry Cheryl. I hate that this has been such an ordeal for you. :( Lots of T&P!
  • I am so so sorry, Cheryl.  Please take care of yourself and we'll be thinking of you.  ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry Cheryl. I think I told you before but my betas did the same thing with my miscarriage. I hope the D&C is as physically painless as possible. If you need someone to talk to feel free to call on me anytime. :big Hugs:
  • So sorry to hear this news. I hope everything goes smoothly tomorrow without complications. I hope for fast healing for you, and that soon you will get your baby for good.
  • I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.
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  • :'( I'm so sorry Cheryl. I will be thinking of you tomorrow!
  • Big hugs to you, Cheryl.  If you need to talk or anything, I am here for you.
  • Cheryl, I am so sorry.  There is nothing else I can say right now.  If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me on facebook.

    For me the D&C was pretty painless and the next couple of days were just like a bad period.   The physical part doesn't take away the emotional pain though.

    I initially found the miscarriage board on the bump very helpful, but then too many angry gals started, regardless, I recommend finding some support there, or even just lurking helped me.

    I wish I could take this pain away.  I wish I could make you have a baby that kept growing.  I wish we didn't have to go through this.  I'm about 4.5 weeks out from my D&C so it's still very fresh in my mind, please do not hesitate to seek support.

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  • I am so sorry Cheryl.  I can only pray that the third time will be the charm.  I will also pray for wisdom for your doctors that they can help figure out the best way to get that sticky baby moving forward.  I know it's going to happen for you.
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  • Cheryl, I am so sorry. To be frank, this sucks. I don't know what more to say aside from that and I hope that you soon get what you deserve to have soon!!
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  • Thinking of you today, Cheryl

    (((hugs)))

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