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Help!

For the past month or two, my sex drive has been plummeting. It's pretty much the same every time, and I find myself wishing it were over before we're through. I love my husband more than anything, but sometimes I just really dread sex. I used to love doing it all the time, and now I feel so guilty saying no. How on earth do I fix this?

Re: Help!

  • See a doc; get medical conditions ruled out --- hormone deficiencies and thyroid problems will cause a diminished libido or no libido at all.

    Perhaps you are in a bad sexual rut. Some backstory will help -- how long are you together, have there been any changes in your relationship, etc?

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    There has to be a reason behind this sudden change of mind. Try to find out what it is. Then you have a starting point to get back to the healthy sex life you once had. I feel for you. Im kinda in a simalar situation. No sex for 6 months or so, but ours is a complete BAD relationship. Good luck

    Blimey, lady --- this guy is a leech and a drain on our oxygen supply and you're still worrying about why you aren't having sex with him???

    Get the picture: IT IS OVER. DUMP HIM. Do not let him emotionally blackmail you.

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    Are you on antidepressants? They commonly cause sexual problems like this.
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  • As far as a backstory goes, we have a very healthy and happy relationship. We have only had two minor fights in the two years we've been together. I'm on antidepressants, but I've been taking them for YEARS and have never had this problem. Going to the doctor is a good idea, I'll definitely check that out as soon as possible. 
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