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scared!! help me

so im so mad at my husband for not telling me he does this well yestarday we got ON? he showed me liked our sex but we went to bed and i found him masterbating spell check. i told him what are you doing he said nothing i got so angry i went to sleep at the living room i didnt get mad because he was doing it i just got mad because he didnt tell me the truth that he was actually doing it.. i dont know what to do i mean i would do anything he would ask me to do but i dont know why he is doing this should i be concerned or what can i do please hel me!! do any of ur husbands do this???

Re: scared!! help me

  • Relax. This is seriously a non-issue. All guys masturbate and frankly, most women do too. Even married couples. There are plenty of times when one of us is horny and the other isn't, so we have no problem with taking care of things on our own.
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    Relax. This is seriously a non-issue. All guys masturbate and frankly, most women do too. Even married couples. There are plenty of times when one of us is horny and the other isn't, so we have no problem with taking care of things on our own.

     

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  • Normal. Not to worry.

    Next time you catch him at it, give him a hand.
  • Scared, jealous, feel left out, see "sin" or what ? Some back ground on you and DH?

    If a man in his teens, 20's and 30's got all the sex they want from only their spouse.  Forget about wearing pants. We would be going commando and pulling up our skirts on short notice 2,3 or 4 times a day.

  • Masturbation is completely normal and healthy.  I agree that he shouldn't have lied to you about it, but maybe you made him feel like it wasn't ok?  That's kind of the vibe I'm getting from your post. 
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  • Totally! I've caught my hubby in the act 3 times. He asks me for what he wants and gets it and I the same... No worries. But I would tell him that it upset you that he lied about what he was doing. That would upset me too.
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  • Masturbation is normal and healthy.
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