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BFP 1/22/12 | Ectopic pregnancy found 2/14/12 | Methotrexate to complete m/c 2/15/12
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
*amandasw* Re: Kitties
Just an idea about your two kitties - does your girl kitty have a place she can go to hide that's up? Like a cat tree, or any ledges way up high? I watched the My Cat From Hell show on AP, and the guy was trying to harmonize a two-kitty home that sounded a lot like your situation. He said that because there was no place for "escape" (meaning up high places like kitties like), that that was one of the main reasons they acted out on each other. I think maybe if your girl kitty had a place to go that was "hers" or a way to escape from the boy kitty, things might get a bit better for you - and that way you won't have to lock anyone up.
HTH!
BFP 1/22/12 | Ectopic pregnancy found 2/14/12 | Methotrexate to complete m/c 2/15/12
Re: *amandasw* Re: Kitties
thanks! yeah, it's actually kind of funny... because she's so much smaller and he's a big cat, she will go under things (bed, couch etc) and he's too fat to fit, lol. Because of this we don't always keep them separated because we know she can get away if she wants, but we make sure she has 'alone' time to eat etc. She used to be a very independent cat and would stand up for herself, so it's frustrating that she won't do it now. And also, the peeing for both of them is very infrequent (I might have made it sound like it was all the time), it's just that it never happened and now will occasionally. All in all, I think we're going to try to make them spend more time together, especially after we get the pheromone stuff and hope that helps.
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