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Questions about DITY moves
I don't really know where to start, so any help, tips, advice is greatly appreciated.
H found a company online that gave us a pretty decent estimate to pick up our stuff and take it to VA for us so we can still take a road trip and stuff.
Their estimate is really low compared to others H has looked at, they estimating $995 while everyone else $2500 and above, I'm a bit shocked at the differences in these estimates.
So any help, advice, input would be greatly appreciated, thanks ladies!
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Re: Questions about DITY moves
I don't know anyone who has done a DITY and hired their own company. I know a lot of people who have packed their stuff in PODS (or the like) and had it transported to their new location, or have rented a UHAUL truck or something.
My biggest concern about hiring a company would be their reliability. Moving companies are NOTORIOUS for providing an estimate, then taking your goods away, and then demanding more and more money before they will deliver your belongings. This practice is illegal, of course, but most of these are fly-by-night companies and they disappear before they can be found and prosecuted. Sometimes they disappear with peopple's stuff.
Even if the company your hire IS legitimate, I would be concerned about their ability to provide compensation for anything they lose or damage.
I know it's tempting to try and make a lot of money on a DITY move, but I would recommend that you actually do-it-yourself and maintain positive control of your belongings the entire time, or trust the moving companies contracted by the military. That way if anything goes wrong you have legal recourse.
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Partial DITY's are the modus operandi here as well.
I would love to have the military move our stuff....but H's OSO said that's not happening, so I don't have a choice. I don't see how you make money off of a DITY anyways and I don't want to DITY but that's what we're looking at.
So then my next question is what's the biggest difference between a full DITY and a partial DITY ?
i know one person ever who did a full dity and made money, the moved across town to on base.. they said they made tons of money im not sure how believeable it is cause they said it was more the 4,000
we did a patial. moved all my husbands "valuables" with was the tv and other electronics ahah.... and some heavy things... we moved from nc to co... But we just packed up our car... layed down the back seats and filled it up.. we made less than 1,000 which was better than nothing dont get me wrong, But unless you can gaurantee your going to make something i dont think its worth it to move yourself
I can't imagine they'd do a full move for you guys for TBS anyway. It's only 6 months, and then they'd have to move you again. Yes, you can go, but spouses don't have to go. It's like moving for MOS school. If you want to go, then go, but of course you're not paid for.
Honestly? I wouldn't move. He's got a reserve commission, right? Or am I thinking of someone else? I'd stay put if he is, because won't he just end up back there again? I know you graduated recently, and I'd do whatever I could do put down job roots where I was rather than move for six months to Q and then again for whatever MOS school he'll be in, and then back to where I originally was.
We've thought about that, but bottom line is we don't want to be apart that long. I know he'll be gone quite a bit during TBS but we decided we don't really care. And no, he won't come back here. He's suppose to have an active duty contract. He was only reserves to finish school but he's suppose to be active duty. And his goal is to be an infantry officer, so if that happens he'll be in Q for a year and then PCS. But we will not end up back where we are currently living.
We were told he would get a home of record move since we knew they probably wouldn't move us for training. The OSO said they'll do a home of record out of VA for him when he gets his duty station but they won't move us now, which is fine...we just don't know where to start for a DITY and we've never moved this far before (our last move was 200 miles).
If there is no chance of getting the military to pay, then my suggestion would be either:
A) Rent a U-Haul, pack everything yourselves, then drive the U-Haul across the country. You won't be able to do a road-trip as easily. You MIGHT be able to bribe a family member to do it for you if you trust them, they REALLY love you, and you pay all of their expenses (plane tickets, gas for the U-Haul, etc). Loading and unloading on either end could suck, but you can always bribe people with beer and pizza.
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Thanks for the info.
I think we decided today we're renting a truck and driving out their ourselves and either towing his car and I'll drive my car and we'll caravan....or we'll sell his car, haul mine and drive together. His isn't worth crap so we're not sure we want it to make the move.
We priced out trucks between U-Haul, Budget and I'm calling Enterprise tomorrow. Is there another big moving truck company I haven't thought of?